I need advice, following miscarrige please be understanding?

Question

Ok, i found i was pregnant earlier this year, only been with me partner for 6 months so we were very surprised.. ok i was devastated. however i came round to the idea and we were really excited, and then i miscarried at 9 weeks. it broke me to pieces and all i can think about is having another baby. on saturday night, condom broke and i got the morning after pill, but i havent taken it yet... should i? all the reasoons for not having a baby are still there, financial worries, carreer goals etc, but it feels like it doesnt matter now. should i leave it up to fate? please please help!

Answer 1

there's always gonna be work trouble & money troubles but you get over them . let nature take it's course . one day you'll make a great mommy to a very lucky baby .

take care xxxx

Answer 2

First I am so sorry about your loss.  Now is not the time to get pregnant, I know a part of you is set to be maternal but you are not ready from all that you said.  

I have been there.  I am the mother of 3 from 9 pregnancies.  All of the financial stress career goals etc. will not be clear before you have a baby but you need to be more settled.  I do not know what your relationship with the father is like but remember that even if the two of you split up you are bound together for decades if you share a child.

A baby is not something to rush into.

Answer 3

let fate take its course, everything happens for a reason but dont ignore ur heart.u kno whats best for u. im pretty sure if u r prego u will make the best of it. nothing in life comes easy, its what u make it. so best of luck in what ur decision is.......

Answer 4

Have you talked to your boyfriend about your feelings? Ask him what he thinks and make the decision together.