I need advice. Help?

Question

Okay so last year i sat in front of this guy... he is everything bad to describe him. Smelly, rude etc etc. But one of the worst things is he sperads germs. So i sat in front of him to be next to my friend and he starts coughing without covering his mouth. He always has this flemmy cough and nce i was like to him "dn't you ever drink medicine?" and he's like shut up. MOre to the point. and then not long after i got the same cough. I enjoy running, i really really love running. So then i had all this flem in my chest which lead up to athsma. I'm not saying he gave athsma to me but i'm saying that he's the reason that i hav all this glem which makes it really hrad for me to breathe. I'm still not over it and i think I neveer will be. What can i do to get rid of all this anger.

Answer 1

So, you've given up on getting rid of the illness and gone straight to coping with your life-long, um, cold?

Answer 2

Take this question exactly how you have written it and show it to either your doctor or a therapist. I dont think your anger has anything to do with any of what you wrote about but a therapist will help you work out what the anger is really all about and help you get rid of it.

Take Care x

Answer 3

Uhhhhhhh..... I think you need to calm down! d**n girl.  

Answer 4

Um, i don't think you can "catch" athsma. Just putting it out there...

Answer 5

Try a sport such as boxing to release anger

if not you can always write all your feelings on a piece of paper and then burn them to represent that you're feelings were there now burnt away

Answer 6

1. Confront Him

2. Stare at him eye to eye

3. Cough your flem all over his face

     ~Problem Solved~

Answer 7

Run, run like the wind (to get rid of your anger).  It will release endorphins, and they make us happy.

Answer 8

your a ********. you have the flu. its not from him. you will get over it. its natural. grow some balls and stop blaming other people for your problems. now im angry.

Answer 9

maybe the guy has a tuberculosis because when someone coughs even he just breathe the germs will spread to the place then if the person didnt drink any medicines it is contagiuos or u can get easily have that kind of sick!

but dont worry just ask or consult a doctor..

Answer 10

when we get diseases we like to blame others for our misery. try to remember love thy neighbor as thy self. it's easy to blame it gives self comfort it's hard to forgive as humans. noone is to  blame but we try to make ourselves fell justified when we do.

Answer 11

well im pretty sure i've had this before and it will go away someday.. it took me like two - three months before it did - but it did

and about the anger... I think the best way would be talking about it with people.. and it would really help you to tell this kid how mad you are .. it might lead to a fight but it will help with the anger