I need advice boyfriend?

Question

okay so me & my boyfriend went out a little over a year WE FELL IN LOVE , planned to get married and have kids [no we didn't have s*x, but we felt each other and blah blah]. so he had to switch colleges for various reasons and ended up going to a college about 8 hours away from where WE were going. he got a dorm with his 2 best friends and they transferred to his college too. we knew it was going to be hard but we agreed to try our hardest to make it work. the next week we saw each other [august 5] and spent the whole day together, and since then we havent seen each other. he stopped talking to me on august 19 and i sent him 3 texts : why hasnt he talked to me , if hes mad at me for something , and how hurt i am since i love him and he wont talk to me [all on seperate days]. now 2 days ago he sent me an i.m. saying "hi , why did you mess around with some other guy?" i responded saying i didnt and i love him [ i really didnt] now what do i do? get over him and move on? or keep begging for him to talk to me?

oh and about every oher day he im's me and says why did you cheat on me.

Answer 1

well did you cheat if so let him be and if not explain yourself someones obviously talking trash about you but if he really wants nothing to do with you leave him alone don't lower your standards begging him hes not worth it i dont care who he is

Answer 2

I Know this may sound weird, but it might be because he wants to break up with you,

And finds it easier to blame you for something you  havnt done, than actually break up with you proprly.

Who knows i could be so wrong.

good luck..x

Answer 3

first ask where he is getting his information. seems you guys have some trust issues. ask why he doesnt trust you or believe what you say. whatever happens happens and move on from there. if it doesnt work out find someone else who you can trust and trusts you back.

Answer 4

First remember females mature faster then males!! He do love you, so remember that too!! But since he went off to college his options got broader. The reason he's blaming you for cheating on him is "he has done something wrong his self and his conscience  is whipping him!! The only way he can satisfy his self guilt is to put in his own mind that you have cheated on him. Don't blame yourself, blame the distance between you two and blame him for not being honest with you!! You shouldn't move on because your heart IS with him but you should occupy your time and attention on someone else for a minute because the best way to get a guy's attention is not to pay him any!! GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 5

If he is that insecure he is defintely not worth it!  College is a time to discover yourself and enjoy your life!  Don't let some old trash bring you down.  Have fun and good luck in college!