Hey, I'm in high school and i need advice on my pathetic life. i am very lazy and fat. i really need to become mentally stronger to be able to take control of myself. i need to exercise but instead i just begin procrastinating and wasting time. i love to eat but i need to control my cravings and try to eat healthier. i basically have no self esteem and i have a great deal of trouble trying to talk to and hook up with a girl. i believe that if i do what i want to do to lose weight, i would be able to. i loove playing baseball and im told by everyone of my coaches that i have great potential to become great. with the help of my coaches, i would be able to become that fit person that i want to be, but my mom is totally against. she thinks that i will do good in swimming and that baseball has a lot of competition so there is no point of start getting seriously into that. the lack of support from my mother has greatly affected me. since i did bad in school last year, my mom wont let me do baseball. i have been doing terrible i my school work the past few years...basically since i got into high school. this is simply because of my laziness. instead of doing homework or studying for a test, i become to lazy and try to avoid and start procrastinating. this is ruining me. i start to think about how i wish my life was better or something and wishing i had my many wishes and start day dreaming about having a girlfriend or being the coolest guy around. i need to stop that because it is taking my mind off my studies. when my mom isnt around, instead of studying, i'm on the computer stocking people on facebook or playing video games. i really need to be able to concentrate on my work. also, my mom has too many expectations of me. she is pressurizing me by yelling at me for 3 strait days after i get a grade below 93. she expects me to get strait A+'s on my report card. she is the main reason why i dont have a social life. she is limiting the way i want to live my life. if i dont become an athlete in my life, i want to become a business man or like a something related to finance, im good at math, im 3 yrs. ahead of my class. but, my mom doesnt want me to become that, she wants me to have a profession in the sciences like engineering, but im not interested in science at all. i only want to get that over with in my academic career. how would i try to convince my mother to do the things that i want in life, not her? how do i fix my laziness in my life? should i meditate or something? also, my mother wants me to be an engineer instead of an athlete or business because a stupid indian fortune teller ppl who only take money for saying lies. like, one guy said that my fathers debt would end by 3 months ago, but it has became only worse. she believes in people who dont even know what will happen to them selves in the next 2 minutes. i need advice on what to do in my life. i love baseball, and my mom doesn't. Please help and answer seriously!!!
Thanks.
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