I need advice for putting my unborn child up for adoption or not.?

Question

I'm 15 years old and i am 5 months pregnant at this point and really i am clueless about what kind of decision to make about this baby. I know i am to young for a child but i would hate for my child to go to any one that i barely know. Because i don't know anyone that would want to adopt a child. To be honest i don't want to give the baby up . My grandmother that i live with is really making me because she thinks i am really going to make her take care of my child. When really i've done studied the responsibilities of caretaking a child. I'm not really sure about this adoption thing. What i really want to know is if my grandmother will change her mind about the baby when i have it. And if not is it a positive decision to give it up for adoption?

Answer 1

okay now this is m y advice im a single parent but im 23 years old io had a lil girl and she is a hand full i dont get a change to go no where with her im always feeding her changing nappies thats all i do the whole time and i did have a job but i had to quit it because i wasnt able for work and my lil girl at the same time.
but your only 15 you should give the baby up for adoption but i know its hard to but belive me looking after a baby is soo hard and tireding it really is.you wont get the chance to do anything you wont be able to go parties,go out with your friends,cinemas or where ever you just wont you will always be looking after the child it doenst sound alot of work but belive me it is.

Answer 2

my dear,
asking for advice on such a heart touching matter is showing me that you may be only 15, but you are much wiser than those few little years.  you are taking on the protective mothering role now.  you are seeking wisdom and help from others  who have gone down this road.   your grandmother is trying to protect you just as you are now trying to protect your unborn child...we grandma's do the same things as mothers...remember we were moms first...you sound if you may adopt out your baby.....if you choose to do this...go with an open adoption....you sound as if you would make a good mother...if not this time, most certainly later ...my daughter and her husband have 2 children..both are adopted....and this is the proudest yiayia that has ever lived....my heart goes out to you and your grandmother....remember she is worried about her baby...you...because of my grandchildren...i am now wanting to adopt a child or two.....

Answer 3

my dear,
asking for advice on such a heart touching matter is showing me that you may be only 15, but you are much wiser than those few little years.  you are taking on the protective mothering role now.  you are seeking wisdom and help from others  who have gone down this road.   your grandmother is trying to protect you just as you are now trying to protect your unborn child...we grandma's do the same things as mothers...remember we were moms first...you sound if you may adopt out your baby.....if you choose to do this...go with an open adoption....you sound as if you would make a good mother...if not this time, most certainly later ...my daughter and her husband have 2 children..both are adopted....and this is the proudest yiayia that has ever lived....my heart goes out to you and your grandmother....remember she is worried about her baby...you...because of my grandchildren...i am now wanting to adopt a child or two.....