I need advice on how to go about things.?

Question

so ive been friends with this girl i know for around a year now. this summer we began talking more and spending a little more time. i want to ask her out like on an actual date but i dont know how to go about this. i dont know if she likes me or w/e. i just want to know how to ask her out on a date in a suttle and non threatening way and see how it goes from there. any help?

Answer 1

You have been friends for a year, she has probably ben waiting for you to ask her out!

The most non-threatening way is to ask her out on a group date (maybe four of you) to something casual; a lunch and a movie is always good.

See how that goes, if it' a positive experience then start to flirt with her, she will instantly recognise the change in your friendship.

I have some links to websites you might like to check out:

http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-a-Girl-Out

http://www.mahalo.com/How_to_Flirt

http://www.ehow.com/how_15903_flirt.html