I need advice on how to make my ex boyfriend that i was with for 7 months to want to be with me again?

Question

we were together for 7 months and completley in love but we dont live near eachother.and i lied to him alot.and we both cheatd on eachother.

but were both in love with eachother.and ive changed and im ready to have a real relationship.my parents love him.i lost my virginity to him.

i want to make him want me so that me and him can get back together but i dont wana beg for him or seem desperatee.

HELPP?

Answer 1

The bet thing is to let him go although you gave up your goods you have to cry about and move on. just think you could have been un the relationship a lot longer and things got worst at least you out now. I don't think you all could really love each other because you all were me sing around really you only love him because you gave him the goods and you are physically attached but you re not emotionally. Although you do sound young you have a long road ahead you need to take this as a lesson learned realize that when you have something special treat them how you want to be treated. If he really love you like you say he will be back dint push the issue the same things you were doing when you were wit him con tine on wit your life it doesn't stop here

Answer 2

well first of all you cant make the guy fall in love with you again or want you. you just cant force that on a person. and if it is forced it doesnt always end up that pretty. if you both cheated on eachother and you feel that you have learned your lesson from it then take it and move on. i know it might seem that you are deeply in love with him and there is no one else in this world for you but there is... and if he cheated on you too what makes you think he wont do it again. i mean you might have learned your lesson but did he learn his. everything happens for a reason and maybe this had to happen so you can find happiness else where. you cant force him to be with you just accept it and you will see love will come to you again and maybe better too. well good luck

Answer 3

good question. depends on him i guess. it takes two to make a relationship work. but one has to start it. so i think u should just call him up sometime or IM him and have a casual conversation. i think u guys should just keep in contact w. each other, then more and more u'll notice that he calls u or IMs u more and u'll do the same then u can strike a conversation about maybe how u miss him.. see how he responds...goodluck~