I need advice on life:S?

Question

I know there are alot of these questions on yahoo

But I need answers from people who know about this stuff

One of my ex's treated me like c**p

He cheated on me 5times

But I was so in love for the first time I ignored it

I ignored the beatings and the pain.and the rape

We broke up though

And for 4months after our break up

He still saw me and convinced me he still loved me while he was making me go insane. He put me down so bad made me feel like i had no friends made me feel like the scum of the earth. And alot of other stuff.

But he made me insane(literaly) and I had to pull myself out of it.

THen I met Dave.

Who I dated for 7months

And we broke up 2weeks ago

He ignored me practically for the last 3months of our relationship

But I put up with it because he was on anti depressents

I confronted him on it 2weeks ago + he dumped me.

I gave him everything.

Is it me?

Am I doing something wrong?

This year has been horrible for me

I had to get over the ex tht made me insane

Ive had to get over an abortion that i was forced to have(im still not over it)

I have to get over my ex who i loved for 7months +

now i have to find out wether my friend is lying about her pregnancy

Answer 1

Oh, wow. This year has definitely not be nice to you but somehow you've survived. You must be a very strong person. About your relationships, I don't necessarily think its you who is causing the problems, it just sounds like you're picking all the wrong guys. The first one was an abuser and the second sounds like he was going through a rough patch in his life and wasn't ready to be in a stable relationship. There is nothing wrong with you from what you've said, just keep on doing what you're doing and try keeping away from men for a little while, because from the looks of it, all they're doing is causing problems for you. Just stay single for a while until you find the right guy and even then be careful not to get too serious too quickly.

Answer 2

You seem to attract the physios. Forget your friend if is she pregnant let her deal with it you didn't knock her up.

I have seen abortion put hurting on many a woman talk to a woman councilllors it will be much easier to deal with