I need advice on my ex?

Question

We dated for a few months and I was convinced we were totally in love. Our relationship was GREAT but he was dealing with a few issues that he needed to deal with so he broke up with me. We were broken up about 2 months when I texted him and he said he was hoping I would call. He asked me to meet him for a drink and when I for there ( he was a little buzzed, not drunk) he put his arms around me and told me how much he missed me and loved me and how stupid he was for letting me go. He admitted to me that he had been seeing his ex for the past few weeks but that he broke up with her and what a mistake it was. We had a great night and he called me to hang out the next day. We spend practically the whole day together and were lauging and talking like nothing had ever changed. I had alot of questions for him about his ex and he answered everything I threw at him. He kept telling me he loved me and referred to me as his girl. I even overheard him telling his friend how great I was. I spent the night and we spent the next day just cuddling and talking in bed. We had a really good conversation on the phone that night and he asked me what time I got off work the next day. He said he would call me after work. I texted him later that night and he never answered. Yesterday I texted him asking why he wasn't talking to me, saying its not fair for him to do this to me, he replied telling me he was gonna take a nap and he would call me. I never heard from him. I sent him one more asking him to tell me if he was back with her just to tell me and I would leave him alone. He never answered. I don't know why he wouldn't just tell me to leave him alone if thats what he wanted. Even if he just sent me a text at least I would know. What's the point of not saying anything? He dated this girl on and off for 5 years and had been broken up for 2 years when we met. She has a bad problem with drugs and drinking and also slept with some of his friends. She has done horrible things to him so I don't know what he see's in her. Can a relationship like that really last? I can't be sure that he's with her but I don't know why he won't talk to me.

Answer 1

Why in the world would you want to be involved in so much drama?

Holy c**p!  Let him go and go find someone who has some integrity.  As fun as you think this guy is, the drama and stress really aren't worth it.  When you find someone who is worth it, the happiness is so much more than you're getting in this little game of his.

Answer 2

It's call a break-up because it's broken

Don't take him back!

Answer 3

You shouldn't waste another second on this bs. Change your number. Burn those bridges. Get a new haircut. Find a NEW man!! xo TRUST.

Answer 4

Regroup..look at this relationship in honesty..it this what you want..or is it time to move forward with life and explore new relationships

Answer 5

im here baby

what wood you like to know more all the things i have said to you are true,, honestly i wood not treat you like how  what he wants  do what the woman wants here this guy's and boy's you need a reall man not a baby yah ring

Answer 6

look at the big picture, he left you in the first place....TO GET BACK WITH HIS EX! he's lame! a good man wouldn't do that to you, or put you thru that kind of h**l.

if i were you i would move on. i wouldn't want to get back with him! he left you for someone else, and then 'realized' you were the good one, who says he won't do that again. and in my opinion, anyone that's gonna dump you and then 'realize' he made a mistake, isn't worth taking back. HE SHOULD HAVE SEEN THAT YOU WERE THE BEST IN THE FIRST PLACE, and not wanted to go s***w around with his ex...

Answer 7

sorry to say this hun, but there is history there. if he didnt want to be with her he wouldnt have left you(if it was so great) for her in the first place.

MOVE ON! find yourself a man that'll treat you good! no problems no drama.  i know that's not what you want to hear (i'm sort of in your situation). the father left me after fiver years together and is with someone else. i know the pain you are going through, but deep down inside i know it was for the best.  why would i want to be with a man that left me PREGNANT!!! they are not worth the pain.  get out of it before it's too late.

Answer 8

This guy is not over this past relationship whether it lasts or not. Are you prepared to wait around until he is ready to commit to you? Will you be happy knowing you were his second choice? Will you be able to trust him with not seeing her again? These are things you need to ask yourself and seriously think about. He obviously is a coward who cannot be upfront and truthful with you. He is stringing you along just in case things do not work with her. No matter how she treats him badly, he obviously is attracted to being treated that way or he would not be going back for more. Here you offer him love and respect and he throws it away with yesterdays garbage. You need to see that you deserve better. Move on and stop allowing him to give you false promises. Good luck to you!

Answer 9

If you were me reading your post, not being emotionally involved, you would read that this guy has some serious issues that are a WARNING SIGNAL for you to move on.  He may be a nice guy but he has serious issues that without even knowing the details are already disturbing the relationship.  It would frighten me to have someone behave secretive, distracted and misleading.  Trust is a major factor in any relationship and once that has been violated you have to use your head and not your heart.  

You wouldn't be posting your question if you trusted this guy, isn't that answer enough?  Trust yourself, you already know that he's bad for you.

Good Luck To You  

Answer 10

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