I guess I should give everyone a little background on myself. I am the oldest of 7 children. 4 of which still live at home. I am happily married to my husband of 6 years. I am a nurse of 8 years( I don't particularly care for my career, but it pays the bills). I don't smoke or drink, never been a "party" time, and have always been known as the "good child". Here is my question.
I grew up in a home where mom and dad worked their butts off, but we didn't always have everything we wanted, but we always had the essentials. My parents were very strict in my upbringing. I was always in the position were I felt I needed to take care of things. So even now, that I am 25, live on my own, and have my "own"(lol) life, I just can't get that idea out of my head. My youngest siblings are 8 and 9, I do everything for them. I'm not over reacting. I buy school clothes, school supplies, plan and carry out birthdays, go to doctor's appointments, school and IEP appointments, take them shopping and basically everywhere with me, I also take them on vacation with me and my husband. I love them to death and I don't want them to do without. I also help my parents if they need anything. Now here comes my real problem. My 18 year old brother started collage and him and his girlfriend could no longer afford their apartment. So being "me" as my husband says. I allowed them to move in and added them to my lease. They came into my house under the conditions that they do not have any children, they pay half the rent, they help keep the house clean. Everything was great until after the lease was signed. They are 18 and 19, they some how got alcohol and brought it into my house, everything they touch ends up in the floor, they bring people over at all hours, destroy my house, and then don't bother to clean up the mess. They use my and my husband personal items. I am at my wits ends. My brother use to be this sweet little kid who cared about his family and his future, now all he does is drink, party, and curse me out every time there is a opening. He really loves the F word. I have been confined to my bedroom for the last 2 weeks, due to the fact that the rest of my house looks like a tornado went through it.
Now to make things worse they are announcing that they are getting married, and she wants to get pregnant as soon as she can. The reason this bother's me is because I can't have children and she knows this. I know that I should be beyond jealousy, but it hurts a lot!!
WHAT CAN I DO???? IS IT MY FAULT??? HOW CAN I GET THEM OUT???? My brother stated that if we move he will take me to court and sue me for my half of the rent. HELP!!!!!!
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