I need advise could you help me sorry i typed fast and i cant go and fix the miss spelled words.?

Question

what is the point of living life if you cant do anythng right and everyone just thinks i am an idiot well i was always put down and i have no confidence today i walked up to this girl ...but before i did me and this guy where making a bet because he said i wouldnt talk to her and the weeks before i was always mad because she always was looking over at me and i never whent up tp her and talked to her but like i said today i did , stayed 5 minutes after work this and after we mde the bet i finally walked up to her but she just went on her way never saying a word or making eye contact but i dont understand because she would always be looking at me or in my direction so basically i dont know what to do i donno is life worth going on only to find out that i waould never be with a girl and i would be loonely and misserably

i just dont know what to do can you help me.?

also she i guess saw us or me shaking the hys hand when we where doing the bet i was standing uo and he was sitting in a chair i was right beside him and i was putting my hand out back and fourth so i donno if she saw and got offended or if she was she or what but i always tore myself up but its like now i just dont give a F anymore about anything .

Answer 1

You answered your own question by saying you have no confidence. That's the root of your problem.  Developing self-confidence takes some practice, and doesn't happen overnight.  I'm assuming you're very young, perhaps a teenager.  This is sometimes an awkward age, because part of you is still a child, and the other part is an adult, struggling to get out.  Relax, hon.  This stage is just temporary.  As you get older, you'll find that it's easier to be more self-confident.  Don't let one incident make you give up on yourself.  You've got a lot of living to do.  There will be joy and sorrows, happiness and disappointments, some you'll win and others you'll lose. That's life!  Eventually, things will fall into place, and you'll know how to deal with situations like you describe.  Wanna know what I think?  I'll be that girl was shy and lacked confidence too. She was flirting with you at a distance, but you probably just scared her when you actually walked up to her.  Don't take it personally, since she's probably going through the same stuff you are.  Just be yourself, live life to the fullest, and look toward the future.  Things will get better.  Trust me!  Good luck and God bless!  

Answer 2

take a deep breath in and out call the doctor and see if you can get some counseling and maybe some muscle relaxers.

Answer 3

Hey man, your young, you don't need to find love now.  For right now, dedicate yourself to changing your weight, self esteem and make new friends.  While in this process of transformation, you will find true love in the process.  Just don't focus on getting girls now, that can wait.  Please try to change for the better as a person though, because this can't wait.

Answer 4

Not that bad. Just talk to her.  Let her know