I need all women to help me out?

Question

Me and my girl have been living together for a while now and and as of late she has been really depressed.when i ask her what is wrong she tells me she doesn't know.she won't tell me anything.she is acting real sad and I don't know what to do.she seems like she just wants to be left alone for a while.I asked her if I did something and she says no.Everything else seems ok like when she leaves she will kiss me and tell me she loves me.and we still do things together and our s*x life is good,but there is something there that I cant put my thumb on.like I never go to her work and today as she was leaving I told her I was going to come see her and she blurted out NO.I told her that I am worried about her and that I am only trying to help her solve whatever this problem whatever it is and she says that she will take care of it when she realizes what it is. Should I be worried what do you think is her problem

Answer 1

Let her be by herself maybe she just wants to be alone.Let her know that you know something is bothering her and your going to give her space.Tell her when she feels up to calling you, then call.Whatever situation she is going through you might not be able to fix that situations.Give her space. I mean if she is not telling you whats wrong you just have to sit back and let it be that way.Theres really nothing you can do.Let her come to you when she is ready.Good luck:)

Answer 2

okay...i'll tell u what i think her problem is : she has someone else ! sorry, but it's what i know about a woman acting weird like that! anyways ..maybe i'm wrong and i would like it to be like this..but no matter what it is try to see whether u have done any mistakes concerning her and try to understand her and put the things right between u 2! Good luck!

Answer 3

i think shes cheating and the guilt is getting to her

thats also probly y she didnt want u to come to work maybe she wasnt goin to work...

Answer 4

I think you might want to be worried by the fact that she didnt want you going to her work. that might sugest she is hiding something. I've been depressed before and my bf doesnt know what to do either. he just gives me my space until i figure out whats wrong. she might be missing someone or something from her past. that's a big one for me.

Answer 5

Stop worrying over nothing.  She is a grown women.  Sounds like she is eyeing someone on her job.  It is a phase.  It too shall pass. Take care of home and be there for her and you have nothing too worry about.  

Personally,  I would make an anonymous phone call too her job and snoop around.  Talk to secretaries, receptionist etc. these individuals know all the gossip. Find out who she has been going to lunch with.  

Good Luck Mr. Private Eye.

Answer 6

She might be pregnant.  

Answer 7

baby it is hard to say but  she cheated on you in her work and now she blame herself ,she doesn't want you come to her work because maybe you find out ,if you want the true just go to her work and see with your eyes what happen ,don't ask to anybody who know you in her work ,but if you love her is gonna be hard for you to know the true  

Answer 8

The work thing is weird.  Talk to her about that, maybe talk to someone she's close to, friend, sister or whatnot and see if they know what's up.