I need an answer. Help me I am so confused and don't know what to do. Should I move?

Question

I am 15 and am living in New Hampshire. My mother and I live in an addition with my aunt. I love their family. My mom started dating this guy about 6 months ago and I can't stand him. He is an alcoholic. My dad lives in Maryland. I fly down once a month to see him. All my family lives down there. I have 3 step sisters that I love but 2 are in college and one has moved out but they come back alot. I lived in Baltimore until I was 13. I love Baltimore. Right now I go to a small high school that is nice but not great. If I moved back to Baltimore I would go to a bad high school o i would go somehow to a high school where my other aunt lives. That is a nice area. My mom wants me to stay and my dad wants me to move. I love them the same. My mom wants to keep seeing this guy. So she sees him and I don't see either of them. So i see my mom like 3 hours a day. I caused a whole lot of trouble and i don't know what to do. Please help any way that you can. I'm really sad and confused.

Answer 1

my niece had this problem with her mom she was able to stay with her mom find and job and keep busy with school and friends she had to ignore he moms new man because he wasn't going anywhere well I'm glad to say she graduated hs and college and shes happily married with a new son and her mom visit her often they have a good relationship her mom is still with the jerk but she learned to ignore him and shes ok

good luck