I need an honest answer, you can rate me and i appriciate some constructive critisicm?

Question

I had an ex boyfriend. We broke up because of infidelity on his part. Now he tries to bring down my self-esteem. He tells me no one will evem take a second look and that i am not physically attractive. Im asking for a sencere answer and honest advice..

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Thanks

Answer 1

I love your beautiful smile, the warm personality and lovely eyes... you are a very attractive girl. I'd say your BF is just being a jerk - ignore him.

But consider working out a bit - it'll also help with your self-esteem issue. Note that I'm not trying to put you down - just giving honest advice as you have asked.

Good luck!

Answer 2

What he is doing has nothing to do with your looks. You are a beautiful young lady. It has to do with him and justifying his actions. His hormones got the best of him. It's called quilt and their own low self esteem, a big person can admit to their mistake and leave it at that and move on.

Answer 3

bring down your self-esteem, that is new to me

.....no one has an influence on my self-esteem.

That is funny

Answer 4

1. your ex is an insecure douche bag, thats just trying to make himself feel better.

2. why do you care so much what other people think about you? you are who you are regardless and there's no changing that. Learn to love who you are, and you will find that more people find that more attractive then physical beauty. However if you go around doubting yourself, other people pick up on that.

Answer 5

got a nice smile, but i wouldn't try any fun or s**y pics, its just not you stay covered up,,,,but  a warm smile

Answer 6

Your ex bf is using a demeaning abuse tactic to break your self esteme.

My heart goes out to you, because it seems that his demeaning has worked.  You're asking strangers to validate your looks.

I strongly recommend that you do not listen to even one of the answers good or bad.  What you need to do, is get your OWN opinion of yourself pumped back up.

Even an old fat woman can find Mr.Right with love and marriage.

The first thing a person needs to do is love THEMSELF in the "right" way.  Just make sure you are a good person, and KNOW that you are a good person.

BE a friend to many.  Always give a bright smile and greeting to others, and it really WILL be returned to you almost instantly.  There are so many people that just need a smile and a scrap of being noticed!!!

You'll become popular immediately.

Beauty, or perfect figure is NOT needed to find love.

Ever why the little ugly girl has the tall handsome man love her and not notice anyone else?

What she has with him, WILL make you stand out in the crowd above all other women, in a man's eyes, is if you are exactly what he's looking for.  Few women know what that is:

Here you go  ;)

What a man wants:

He wants his lady to flirt with him, admire him, TELL him he's fun to be with, thank him for dinner out, defend him, or let him think you will, against the world, be his best friend, compliment him on his grass cutting, or his "good job" whatever he's doing, and above all else he wants you to be FUN to be with.

Note:  Being FUN is the most important; because,  in a man’s world they grow up with the game among themselves of non-harmful “one-ups-man-ship”.  When a man finds a woman that knows how that game is played, he is awed how “this woman fit’s into my world, like no other.” This is a quality he can’t purchase at the bakery, like a great apple pie.  A FUN woman is a rare treasure.

  

It seems that when the relationship matures, and a man is ready to marry you, is when he will begin to reciprocate more and more, as he settles into the idea you’re his forever woman.

Answer 7

a sincere answer is: your ex boyfriend knows he screwed-up and is trying to switch the blame to you. He also knows that alot of other guys will be asking you out because you are very pretty. Trust me, I'm a man and I know most men would agree that you are attractive. Don't listen to him and move on to someone that will treat you right. Good luck!

Answer 8

I would say you got a pretty cute face for someone of your physique.  You may be a little big, but guys have their preferences, so it'll vary.  Overall, you don't seem to be the type of girl that I would criticize harshly to the point of bring down self-esteem.  I think its more of your ex just trying to make you feel sorry for yourself for breaking up with him.  

If you feel cool and have plenty of friends, I wouldn't worry about anything.  You got a nice smile which is important.

Just remember guys have their preferences on this board to size and your race so it'll vary:

i rate you probably 5.5/10.  Your average but you got a nice smile. Thats my personal preference though.

Objectively I rate you 6 or 6.5/10 if i would think of most guys.  

Answer 9

Your boyfriend has already proven himself to be a liar.... and he's wrong!