I need big time help (boy problems)?

Question

*long story*

i broke up with my boyfriend last week. we had been together for 9months. i left him because he really had some hardcore anger issues, and he would take a lot of stuff out on me and blame me for every thing, he also got really really mad when he found out that i choose family above all. he wanted my whole world to revolve around him, and me only being 16 and still in school and living with my parents i cant do that. and heres the big thing hes 19 =// i know that's illegal, and you probably think its wrong but thing weren't all ways so terrible. so any ways were not together any more, we decided to be friends still, but hes always calling and texting me and wanting to hang out. i don't mind seeing him now and again but it feels like he's trying to guilt me back to being with him... what can i do?

Answer 1

I hate to say it but you need to stay away from him. Put some distance between the two of you and then maybe one day in the future you guys can hang out it's really hard to be friends with an ex...do what you have to do to keep your distance or just be honest with him but knowing how stubborn guys can be it doesnt always work in your favor...I was in the same situation and wound up being in a terrible relationship for 3 years. You are young now is your time to live dont let someone hold you back girl! because if you let him guilt trip you your just setting yourself up. hope that helps :)

Answer 2

I would dump the b*****d.

What you have described is an insecure abuser and a child molester..(not that you are a baby, but it is ILLEGAL  for a reason.

YOU were right to choose your family..this is what abusers do..

They will try to get you away from family and friends so that all you have is them. It is not okay that he has anger issues.

Stop allowing his behavior.don't write, don't text, don't call.

Get as far away from this guy as you can. You made a very sound mature decision to break up with him.

If he continues to contact you, it is considered stalking and you can have him arrested.

Good luck.  

Answer 3

put ur foot down

tell him that he cant take al his anger out on u its not right

nd tell him that ur fam does come first above all including him

tell him this face to face

but make sure somone is close enough to be there just incase his anger gets out of handle

but if u rely cant handle it then u need to put ur foot down

tell somone lik ur bff or ur mom