I need boy help...please anyone!?

Question

heres my situation my ex who lives in another state loves me again..he is soooo amazing.its like falling in love with him over and over again everday..he cals me gorgeous and makes me feel wwanted.but get this..i have a boyfriend..wwho is alright...he loves me but i love him in a not falling in love way..i dunno what to do! do i choose the ex ill never see and hurt someone i told i loved or hurt the one who im just ok with andhurt the one who NEEDS me and i love more and more everyday and wont be able to see basically unless i move there...help! please!

Answer 1

dont go with anni of them

Answer 2

Yes and when your ex b/f in another state is not talking to you, he is spending time with the g/f he has there.He must have recently broken up and got bored.

Dump the guy your with until you get over your ex.

Answer 3

I agree with silly one. I had an ex who did me horrible, and if he does say loving things..actions speak louder than words. If it's real love, don't force it, it will happen on it's own. Stick with the one your with. I had an ex that came back and did the same..but it turned out it I wasn't getting as much out of it as I expected..IF YOU DESERVE BETTER, dont move backwards keep moving forward....but if the guy ur with treats u right now..remain with him..u cant play fire with fire...and u certainly cant have both my dear.

Answer 4

every one gets bored...and just stay with the one you have now.. only cause he calls you and all that other stuff, it does not mean that he means it.. always think about it. What ever you do think before you do some thing.. :)  

Answer 5

if he is so fare away then really what is the issue as you said the chances of you actually meeting up again is limited and as such I would be more incline to call him a friend, keep the one that you have a chance of seeing or find someone that you can actually have a normal relationship with and that makes you feel good too

hope this helps

Good luck  

Answer 6

This is a perplexing question. I think that you should do what you think is right. Depends if you like long distance or short distance relationships. Which one says I love you more? How do each show they love you? Who do you think is more important? Those are the questions you should ponder. I have had an Internet Dump before, It hurts alot less than being dumped in real life. Chances are the Internet guy is cheating on you with 30 other girls on the Internet. Anyway, Do whatever your stomach says. Hope you find love somewhere. :D

Answer 7

well as the saying goes "Love the on you're with" but appearently you dont exactly love him love him or you wouldnt be thinking about chucking him for an ex. may i ask why he is your ex anyway? did you break up becasue he was moving or what?

EDIT:

Well in that case i really dont think you should leave the guy you're with, he loves you and from my own personal experiences long distance relationships dont tend to work. It might be fine in the beggining, but further down the road the relationship may be over and you wont even know it becasue people change and it's harder to see the change when they are so far away...How long were you dating before he moved and how old are you, if you dont mind my asking. I was 14-15 trying with a long distance realtionship and it was a mess i missed out on a lot of things becasue my so called "Boyfriend" wasnt where i was.