I need help, men & women!!! What would you do?

Question

My fiancee and i have had our fair share of problems but I'm pretty sure we've got them worked out BUT

Since everything has gotten better he's changed, for the good like he wants to do everything with me he loves cuddling all the time with me now he's very loving and giving VERY understanding like he's the opposite of the person he was before. No I am not complaining but it's just weird, I don't know what to do or how to take it. I love the fact that he's being like this and i wouldn't change it for anything but when we were having problems he called off the wedding and I believe it was the best idea but now I want to bring it up again without making him mad or aggravating him.

he's become everything I wanted him to be.

oh and without me nagging and telling him that's what I was wanting

might I add!

I need help!!!

Answer 1

JUST ASK ,,U THINK U N I COULD START PLANING OUR WEDDING AGAIN,,N LET HIM TAKE IT FROM THERE IF HE GETS ALL MAD N TURNS INTO MR.HYDE,,THEN YOU NO HE DOESNT WANT TO GET MARRIED ANY TIME SOON,,PEACE

Answer 2

You may not want to go there he is the one who called it off maybe that is what mad him aggravated he wasn't ready and was feeling the pressure.

Answer 3

He's become everything u want but hasn't brought up the wedding again? Do you know the reason of his changes?

Why not to have a open talk with him?

Maybe he's expecting sth from u too. Open your heart and mouth.

Answer 4

If he's acting like the opposite of the way he was before, you should be worried.  This is most likely not a permanent change.  Don't trust it until you see this behavior carried out over the long haul.  Other than that, though, I'm not sure what you're asking.

Answer 5

How long, I wonder, has this change of personality been in effect? Any less than a year and I wouldn't trust its permanency.  

Answer 6

Lock him in the closet - you have him fully trained.

Answer 7

You had better step back and take a look around. If he wouldn't change before and now has made a sudden change, this could be because he has realized that he does love you tremendously, and he can be everything you want him to be. It could also be the sign of someone faking to get their way. I've experienced both, and it's hard to tell without giving it some time. So now as for your feelings about this whole thing... you didn't like it before and thought it was a good idea to call it off because he wasn't what you wanted. Now he's everything you want and all is peachy, but your gut is telling you that something is wrong and you want to approach the same problem again. Are you afraid that all isn't as it appears to be? Then stop and take a look around. Marriage is a commitment and should be taken as such. It won't hurt to wait and see what is going on here. You won't regret taking a second look to see what the rest of your life is going to be like.  

Answer 8

Never satisfied are you.

He could give you a date & it would not matter you would find something else to want.

Sounds like he is willing to do what ever it takes to make you happy but what are you willing to do for him.

He made some major changes for you what have you changed for him, you can't tell me you are little miss perfect, so what gives?

You dont seem to be satisfied with what you have, can't you just enjoy it for awhile!

Answer 9

I guess the question is...

Is he being genuine, or is he faking it?

Ride it out for a while, the true colors always come to light. If he is faking it, you will know soon enough.

Answer 10

just marry him

Answer 11

You should wait and see if this is how he is or if it's just an act. That way you'll know if it's real and you'll also have time to adjust to the new him. Then after some time you'll know for sure when the right time is to bring up the wedding, assuming you still want to do it by then. I hope I helped!!!

Answer 12

WTF is your problem?  boo hoo, my man wants to cuddle.  boo hoo, he's understanding. boo hoo, I have what most women would KILL to have!  Stop bitching and thank god you have a good man

Answer 13

You have nothing better to do than post this inane question!?!  You broke his spirit, congratulations!  Feel better now?

Answer 14

UH OH...a woman has finally found the man she has always wanted and is now confused by the way he treats her! Before you know it she will be walking all over him and controlling his life and calling him a wussy for not acting like more of man! LOL

  

Answer 15

u got what u wanted and ur still not happy....perhaps it wasnt his behavior in the first place....?