I need help, my girlfriend fell in love with her ex bf... i need answers?

Question

about 4 months i started dating my ex girlfriend and she had a rough break up with her boyfriend. but through it all we managed to get through it and were steady for 4 months. everything was perfect and i couldn't see anything going wrong. i worked for her dad and he mom loved me and i was such a help to their family and her little sister always wanted me to come over so she could play with me. she even had a crush on me but she was 10 so it was cute. I'm 18 btw. she got me to work out and change my life completely and then one day she had a huge life changing moment. she realized she couldnt do somethin she has been doing since she was a baby. so her mind was all ****** up. so she put up a wall to everyone including me, then all of a sudden she ran into her ex bf and they talked for 3 hours. and i dont like him one bit and she knew that. she continued to speak to him after saying she hated him. when they broke up she hated his guts, he was a prick to her and i guess i was the shoulder to cry on at the time. so all of a sudden she meets up with him and she dumped me with full intentions of getting back together with him. technically they aren't together right now but she just doesnt want to be mean and rub in my face when she already has... is she worth it? i love this girl so much and i put so much into this relationship...her parents still love me her little sister asks where i am and i need her. but she doesnt realize shes getting back into the same mess she was in before me and even her parents recognize it but they really cant do anything about it... what do i do? please help me

Answer 1

You're 18. All this drama will go away when you're older, but for now, she's basically dating the scene. Everyone goes through this and it's difficult because you get attached to their family and siblings and their friends... but the truth is that it makes you stronger and you recognize the things you want in someone else and you learn when to cut things loose or when to stay. Use your good judgement to decide if this is for you or not. I think she has made her choice.  

Answer 2

Did you ever pass your english exam??? Wrong grammar and vocab.

Answer 3

move on , shes obviously not in love with you,

wrong catagory

Answer 4

wrong category

Answer 5

the way i  hear she is not your girl friend.  SHE IS YOUR DOUBLE EX. NEED HELP from your self. my advise DO NOT COME BACK.

you should not dated your ex. it is a wrong moved.Some people think and  look at her  . She is  a pcs.of garbage

now  she is using you  just cover up her MANHOLE  from her family and friends. my advice if you really love her so much.go away do not turn back your head.lots  of Beautiful women  with nice curved out there.     Next time do not show your self,  your in love. just talk  straight to the point.   the only  WORDS your using is LIKE  not  LOVE  

Answer 6

Shane, she has broken your heart again! You poor thing! I can not believe that she would do that after everything you have done for her. have you tried speaking to her and asking her about her feelings? Does she still have strong feelings with this guy, and is it just friends she wants to be with him? if you do not like him and your relationship is serious, she should respect that you do not want her having any contact with her ex. Ask what is it about this guy that makes her want to be with him than you after all you have done? At the end of the day Shane, even though your heart is broken, you can not force someone to be with you. You obviously need someone that will treat you right. I do not know you and I am not going to pass judgement, but the advice I would give you is listen to what your heart says. It is hard to break up and see that your girl is doing this to you. If she does not talk to you, then you know where you stand. All the best.