I need help. I'm constantly lying and don't know why. One minute I don't hear from my boyfriend and I make up

Question

a lye. I make up fake myspaces and email myself acting like theyre hitting on me because I know he knows my password and will read them. I act like there are girls that claim he talks to call me, which they dont but he gets worried and starts telling me its not true so im comforted. I made up so many lies. I told him my dad is abusive, I told him I have cancer just to get attention and he doesnt know at all. I know he loves me but for one minute he's paying more attention to his friends I panick and start thinking he doesn't..

I don't know why. I need help. I love him, he loves me. But I can't stop lying. We're going to be married. I think that will leave me in relief.

Answer 1

i know someone like you, in fact she was my best friend since grade 9. She was a wonderful person but just a compulsive liar and faker. She would make up fake accounts and hit on herself, even going as far as photochopping her face and body to make her more desirable. This past year I just couldnt handle her anymore and I made a choice to permanently cut her off from my life. Now i just think she is this pathetic girl that needs to grow up and stop being so demented! You will end up losing friends if you keep this up I tell ya Tell him every lie you have told and you will feel better about yourself. Be honest and he will love you for that, if he cant forgive you, he is NOT the one for you.

Answer 2

you have to stop the lying, before it gets out of hand, you need to start being honest with him, especially if you are going to marry him. just be honest with him, he deserve that much. you need to start trusting in his judgement, if he says that he loves you then there it is. you do not need to get into this marriage  if you are going to continue to lie.

Answer 3

well.... i see why you lie. YOu're scared and you start panicking. I think you have to stop lying and tell him the truth.... if you're gonna be married, you cant live your life as a lie. Your conscience will haunt you, so just put things right.Think THRICE before you say anything.:)

Answer 4

Your crazy, take some kind of meds and go back in your corner.

Answer 5

you may have some underlying psychological problem behind this. i think your problem sounds similar to Borderline Personality Disorder. are you deeply dissatisfied with yourself or do you fear being ridiculed? there are some websites which ask you a series of questions and then evaluates what kind of a personality you have and whether you have any disorder.

Why dont you get an opinion from a therapist? it wont harm and you'll be able to get an objective opinion and advice. You dont want this to harm your marriage and it sounds like it may unless you get counselled.

Answer 6

I don't believe you

Answer 7

whoa man,

i'm sorry but i think this problem goes deeper than anything any yahoo'er can help you out with

you should take this to a psych