I need help I'm sad?

Question

Hi, I just need your help and advice please. I'm now in a situation where I feel so extremely sad and barren.. I'm a fourth year high school student and I'm one of the representative of our section as Mr. Lakandula, Lakandula means Prince Charming, and in that pageant I feel so low, I don't want to dance in our introduction number, cause I don't really know how to dance, I look so hilarious in dancing and I feel so stupid. My talent is actually singing, and my teachers told me that they will give a failing grade if I back out from that pageant, and I also think that I don't really stand a chance against those other contestants.

I feel like I want to die, cause there are a lot of problems that are in my back, including family problems and this pageant is driving me insane, please help me to convince and imbue myself to go on and fight in this pageant. Please I'm begging you, I need a serious answer.. Thanks so much.

Answer 1

if u wanna talk IM me

Answer 2

Just try. Who knows that you'll be the star attraction.

Answer 3

im me if u wanna talk

but ur focusing to much on the pageant

think about it the dance will only last a few minutes

just practice...do ur best...

and everything will turn out OK

also remember that most people in audience dont know how to

dance so they will not know the difference if u make a mistake

or not :)  

Answer 4

on youtube

look up 'running man tutor' or something along those lines

after a small bit of practice this can be very easy to do and is not stupid and can be used at parties, raves, etc.

Answer 5

Ok first off you need to shake off your blues about school,your in your last year.  

Use this as a learning experience, we all have to do things that we don't want to do especially when your and adult.  

I doubt very much that you look any different from some of the other kids that are in the introduction number that dancing isn't there forte either.

Have fun with this if you do it will be much easier and you will feel better when it is over, just know that you don't have to do it again,you are only doing it for the grade.  You are making it harder on yourself by dreading it.  If you go into it every-time with a positive attitude and have fun with it then it will be easier to get through. Who knows you just may end up having fun after all. Having fun doing something doesn't mean you want to make it part of your life. It will show you though how to get through dreaded or difficult situations in the future.  You will be able to look back on this on day and say HUMMMM i was in a similar situation when i was younger and i handled it like this and it ended up working out.  

You can get through this, and you will not die from it, most of all don't quit, if you quit now you'll quit for the rest of your life.

KICK SOME INTRODUCTION NUMBER A**  THAT'S WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.

Answer 6

There must be something awesome about you that you were chosen for this part!  What if you find a friend that is a really good dancer and see if they will teach you some easy steps.  All you need is to at least have some rhythm and the rest will follow.  Anyway, people will be paying attention to your voice, since you said that was your strong point.  I am sorry that your teacher put so much pressure on you about this, but you should go in there, show every one what you've got, and do it for fun, not so much the competition.  What's the worse thing that can happen, you have a good time?!?!

Go for it, have fun, and don't sweat it.  You have too many things to look forward to, than to stress yourself out.  Practice a lot so it comes second nature to you and HAVE FUN!!!  Please let us know what happens.  Good Luck  P.S. Please talk to someone you trust about your family problems, a guidance counselor, crisis counselor, trusted friend.  You definitely need to get some help with that situation as well.  If you had a supportive family, you might just be laughing about the whole pageant thing and do it, no problem.