I need help.. a girls opinion would be better...?

Question

Ok.. i have known this girl for about 5 years and we have done alot of things together and i like her alot and i think she likes me... if you see us together it looks like if we are going out but we are not.. ok here is the problem she has a boyfriend but he treats her really bad and i dont want to talk to her about him... we tell each other ''i love you'' all the time..can anyone help me...

Answer 1

By trying to make her dump her boyfriend you could be seriously messing up your relationship with her.  

Just sit down and have a serious talk about how you feel and how you think he's treating her wrong.  You can't tell her to dump him, that's the wrong thing to do.  Just be there to support her and show her that you care.

Answer 2

It is insanely hard to be very close to someone you love and yet not have them love you back.

If you two reveal your feelings and get together, you two will never be the same "friends" again. Your relationship will be on another level. Also, if you never tell her how you feel and she eventually ends up with her current boyfriend or some other guy, soon enough that guy will make sure your friendship ends.

So, there is no point in worrying about ruining a friendship. You tell her how you feel, in a very romantic, sweet way. If she accepts (which she might) then enjoy! Otherwise there will be some awkwardness and distance between you two, yes, but it is necessary if you need to heal and move on.

You get only one life. Please live it to the fullest and seize the day! Good luck!

Answer 3

she obviously see's you as a really good trust worthy friend...maybe you should just talk to her but if you do remember things may change drastically sometimes its better off to be friends then not have each other at all...

Answer 4

tell her how you feel for real! You two are basically together anyway. She doesn't need that jerk in her life.

Or just do the dramatic thing... grab her and kiss her. Somehow I don't think that'd be the correct line of action, but it's a thought!