I need help about marriage at early age!! any one who got married at young age!!

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I need help about marriage at early age!! any one who got married at young age!!

hi, uhmm. ok, i dont kno how 2 explain this, but, i need to know if there anyone out there that has got married at a very young age, perphaps like my age, 18?! descrime me ur expirience and tell me how was it!?!? how did u plan to say it 2 ur parents!?!? to ur family!?! and how they reacted!?!? did they supported u guys!? did they approved ur fiance!?how hard was it!? did ur parents didnt agree but u still got married!? i meen, at 18 ur legally right!? im sorry 4 all this Qs is just that i wanna understand a lil bit more about this!! but please make sure to answer this Qs, its very very important! oh!! && how long you dated him or her!? thank ppl!!!

Answer 1

I didn't get married at a young age, but a lot of people in my town did.  They mainly dated 2-3 years in high school, and then the guy joined the military afterwards.  It's been hard for some of them, I know one couple that already got a divorce, and she was 20.  I think it depends on your dreams.   If you dream to get out and see the world, it will be very hard for you because you may have to sacrifice going to school and establishing the career you dream, and may not to get to a lot of things in life while you are young, such as travel.  For me, I could never get married young because I want to travel and see the world before settling down.  I want to be able to take care of myself without having to worry about anyone else right now.  

However, if your dream is to just fall in love, and spend your life with that person; then it can work if you think you've found that right person.   If your parents can see your in love, and you two have a strong plan on where and how you would live, they may be upset, but supportive.  

Good luck with everything.  Hope that helped some.

- Mike.