I need help and advice about something my friend has recently told me. more details.....?

Question

My friend ___________ told me that she way raped when she was 8 years old by her aunts boyfriend or husband (idk which) I definately believe her considering that she is sexually active. She is twelve years old now. This man also raped her cousin (her aunts daughter). I don't know what to do. Please do not say she is making this up because i know that she isn't. The first time she had s*x willingly was at the age of 10. I am the first person she has ever told. no body noes.

Answer 1

Tell her mom. NOW. If she raped her cousin than that gives her and alibi.

EDIT: I ment if HE raped her cousin. Sorry!

Answer 2

Call 911 and report it so they won't know it was you. then tell your parents

Answer 3

tell her no more s*x!!

and this is kinda gross but if she can describe his "thing" to the police then that man an go to jail

Answer 4

talk to your mom / dad or an adult you trust.

that guy is dangerous & could be harming other kids.

You do need to get the police on him, but have an adult help you.

Answer 5

ask her if she is telling the truth and say cuz i need to tell someone this will need to et out take to her and tell herr ur worried

good luck

Answer 6

u need to tell her to tell her family about this. she may also need therapy for this is a mental illness! i know someone who was raped and is still in a 8 year old state of mind tell her! and for matthew @ssHole shut the h**l up she is mentally ill from this u dumb@ss maybe ur ugly and have aids since u want  to put that on a little girl u jerk

Answer 7

Wow,  You sound like a great friend and that's great that she trusted you to tell her with this.  Talk with her and talk to your parents.  Maybe she should go to counselling.  Talk to your parents about this...  

Good luck

Answer 8

she needs to find an adult she trusts and have them go to the police with her...this needs to be taken care of. i have a friend like this and ik how u feel as her friend. just dont be stressed yourself...i was and it wasnt healthy..it resulted in heart problems...so just relax and take this very calmly.

Answer 9

go to the ****** police!! what are you a hollywood actress? please for the sake of other little girls out there, turn him in!!

Answer 10

PLEASE-PLEASE tell your friend to talk to her mother. Her mom should know what to do. If she feels she can't go to her mom, then she should talk to a counselor at school, who will not tell anyone, and can give her good advice. But whatever you tell her... PLEASE let her know she is way too young to become a mom! YES she can get pregnant at her age, and I don't think she wants that. Good luck to you both..

Answer 11

You need to tell an adult in your family or a guidance councelor at your school.  Even though it is still summer, your school should have people working in the office.  Even if you think she would be mad at you for telling, you need to.  If she has been having s*x since the age of 10 - she needs help.  It would be best if you could find the courage to tell your mom.

Answer 12

people who are malested/raped tend to start having s*x early in life, i know from exerience. The best thing you can do is either tell parents/teachers/SOCIAL WORKERS. Really this isnt just about your friend, this is about the future victims you could help prevent. Your friend is 12 and sexually active, she NEEDS help, she is replaying what happened to her most likely. She needs help before she comes down with an STD or becomes a nymphomaniac, i'm not exagerating, rape will mess someone's head up for a long, long time, untill they get the help to get over it

Answer 13

She may not be close to her mum but you still have to go to her... or convince her to talk to a school teacher, im sure there is one that you guys love. BUT someone in a position of power need to do something about this. This man has ruined her life and she is acting out because of it, it good she has stop but now she need to focus on making him pay for what he did to her. PLUS he might have done the same to any number of other girl and she can't let him keep ruining peoples lives not while she has the power to do something about it and as good a friend as you who will help her through this. She shouldnt think that ppl wont believe her because they will as long as she tells the truth she will be believed and she will be helping other children who might have been hurt by him or he was planning on hurting. Help her to be strong and do the right thing.

Good Luck and i hope that slime ball goes away for a long time.

Answer 14

If no one tells then it continues to happen. I am 49 and I gotta wonder how anyone has consensual s*x at the age of ten. DO SOMETHING!

Answer 15

I would tell the principal or a teacher you trust at your school.

Remember that school offices are open during summer and principals and some counselors work all summer, so even if you aren't in summer school your school office is still open.

Call before you go to find out what the summer hours are, since while they are open in the summer, they may only be open half a day or 3 days per week.

School teachers and Principals know how to figure out if its true and deal with it while keeping your name a secret.

Unless of course your friend is on Yahoo and has already read your question.