I need help asap please!?!?

Question

i sent a text to my friend that said i hate my grandma but the my grandma saw it just now!

what should i do?

please help!

my grandma is probably mad sad i don't know! she is in the living room i am in my room the only thing i told her when she showed it to me was why are you looking at my texts? and came back to my room! what should i do?

Answer 1

Don't play games or hide...

Sometimes you just need to face the music - and this is one of those times.

Go down and ask your grandma if you can talk to her.

Then say you are sorry.  You didn't mean that text...you were being goofy and random and all that...but you do love her and am happy to have a grandma and you are sorry she saw it and can she please forgive and forget?

Then a hug and you're done and one big happy family again.

It's easy - so go do it!

Answer 2

Tell her that I am very sorry, grandma...I love you and won't do it again..and she's wrong too because should not look at your cell phone...tell her that..

Answer 3

Wow, that's pretty mean! You should tell her your sorry if you really are.

Answer 4

Tell her that you were being irrational and acted without thinking - that you didn't want to hurt her feelings, especially because what you said is not true.  Tell her that you love her a lot.

That is, if you actually do.

Answer 5

I think you should go apologize immediately.  Tell her you don't hate "her", but hate something she did (then tell her what it was).  Tell her you were so mad about the "something", that it just came out wrong.  She is probably sad more than mad.  Think how you would feel if you just found out someone you love "hates" you!

Answer 6

Go to her and tell her that you are sorry for what you said and that when you said it you was upset and did not mean it .

My guess is is that your grandma is hurt over this but at the same time moms , dads , grandma's & grandpa's know that this is pretty much a normal thing that kids say . Deep down inside they know you don't really mean it but never the less it still hurts their feelings .

Just apologize to her and tell her that you really do love her . A big hug would also help .

Best wishes  

Answer 7

You need to apologize asap. Say that you were in a terrible mood when you sent that text and that it wasn't personal. Take full responsibility and tell her that you love her. Try to do something nice for her, like take out the trash or clean up around the house. Or even write/draw her a card in which you apologize for your actions. It will be okay -- grandparents and parents alike know that teenagers say that they hate them, but don't necessarily mean it. Good luck!

Answer 8

Why do you hate your grandma? ugh my friend just went through this. tell her sorry, but whatever she did upset you and you really didn't like it. tell her you dont hate her, your just fustrated with her for whaever she did.

Answer 9

Well the only thiiNG you can do iiS apologiiZE, she loves you she wiiL understand, you just got to apologize for everythiiNG you diiD, and say that you diiDNT mean iiT!!! But iiT iiS your phone and she has no riiTE to look at iiT....  

Answer 10

text again say, you know my grandma ___ say the grandma from the other side of your family or make up a  name so your grandma wont think its her

Answer 11

Unless you are 7 years old or younger you need to take responsibility for what you said as well as how you feel. That's a very strong statement - hating someone - especially family. If you didn't mean it then talk to your grandma about why you said that to your friend. If you did mean it talk to your grandma about why you feel that way. You have a right to your feelings; but you should express them in a responsible way.

Answer 12

Just be cool, honest and open. Tell her you said these things cos you get mad and that it was your way of releasing your anger without yelling or being childish and say that you didn't mean it that way and that you love her heaps. Grannys are cool they always forgive and show her you love her with a hug and it'll all be over. Even if she Pi..... you off just do it and tell her it was a bit mistake and it'll be fine and your mum n dad will think you are pretty grown up too