I need help asking out a girl...?

Question

Okay so i am in middle school, 8th grade and I want to ask out this girl. But I really don't how to say it or ask her out correctly.... like i'm in middle school so its different because they don't go like on a date or anything. so what do I do? what is the best way to word it????!?

Answer 1

Talk to her for a little bit, like you always do, then ask her "do you want to go do something?"  or "we're ordering pizza and watching movies Saturday night at my house, do you want to come?"  As far as coming over to your house, you can ask "If your parents would be more comfortable my parents can call them, or I'd be glad to meet them if they want."  (shows you're being brave, dealing with parents, and also takes away a reason to say no).   And a group date is always good--if she wants to go out then each of you could ask 2 friends so it's just a group date, altho you two will be 'together".  

If she's in 8th grade she may not have dated before, so she may be a little hesitant.  You can ask her what she wants to do but be prepared for her not saying anything, or saying "like what?"  so you have to be ready with an answer.  A guy who is self-assured and interested in the girl will do great.  

Good luck!  - and I'd go out with you :-)

Answer 2

Try going to lunch with her a few times.. just ask her if she would like to join your for lunch. Then work it from there, if u see sparks and she likes talking to you can then ask her to go else where with you.

Answer 3

How about...

"Yeah I know we're too young to know what a relationship is all about, but I was wondering if you wanted to act older than we are with me?"