I need help dealing with my friend?!?

Question

My best friend is starting to get annoying. Whenever i talk to a group/friends that she had a problem with, she constanly pulls me aside and ask me to talk to her b/c she wants somebody to talk too. Now im not trying to say that i don't want to listen and talk to her, but she does that almost everyday....What should i do?, what should i say?....advice pls..

Answer 1

tell her that u have other friends besides her and that ull try ur best tos pend equal time with all

Answer 2

try 2 talk wiz her about it and tell her tht iy's annoying u

Answer 3

Tell her that she is allowed to have other friends, so you should be, too. Tell her that she isn't your only friend. Tell her that she's welcome to butt in the conversation and talk and listen and stuff. Hope this helps!!

Answer 4

I had the exact same thing happen to me.  The best you can do it try to explain to her that you can talk to other people too. When you try to explain to her that you can talk to others, she may not take it that well, but give her some time and she will get over it.  You could also try and change her mind about the other group/friends, that way you can both talk to them.  Hope this helped! :-)    

Answer 5

tell her that its time to shut the h**l up.

Answer 6

Whoa, that must be beyond annoying. What I would do is the next time she pulls you aside say something. Say something like "Stop, (name) I'm talking to them" and go back into the group conversation. If she still does it talk to her. Tell her that just because she doesn't like them doesn't mean you don't. Tell her how you feel. I've been in a similar situation and it worked for me. Good Luck!

Answer 7

maybe tell her that you enjoy her company, but you would like to have other friends too ... and maybe she should join in the conversation instead of isolating herself from it. If she cant let you have other friends aswel then maybe she isnt really a friend?!?!

good luck with whatever you decide to say or do! x

Answer 8

Your friend wants you all to herself and she doesn't want you to be closer to anyone except her. You need to tell her that she isn't the only friend that you have and that you should make friends together.

Answer 9

Just say i want to talk to my friends. you are not the only friend i have. but say it in a nice way. and just be like please dont pull me aside i dont like that. you can also say how about you go find someone to talk to you can get into a cool conoversation with. and if she says no just say i am talking with my other friends you can also say what my other friends are talking about is more importtant what you are talking about. but remember that you have to say this in a nice way if u wanna keep you bff. hope it helped!

Answer 10

need to lose this one...that's really annoying. especially when your friend is the slob "friend" that I have to deal with to talk to the hot girl I'm interested in...

Answer 11

be like sally, you're always gonna be my best friend but does that mean i can't talk to other friends? if you want to talk to someone i'll introduce you to my other friends so we can all be friends

Answer 12

tell her what you feel... or pray for her :)

Answer 13

Just tell her firmly that you want to spend time with your other friends, and that you will talk to her aswell. When you are talking to other people make to sure talk about stuff she can talk about aswell.

Try to make her feel welcome in the other groups, if she doesn't want to make the effort, just tell her that you need to have other friends too.

Answer 14

tell  u need a break from her and have fun  tell her what u want  

Answer 15

She is getting boring, help her out , she may be having anxiety

Answer 16

Well that's a common problem with most of the friends. In this case you should tell her to make more friends to with whom she can talk when you are away. Make her understand that you have more Friends and they also need you sometime to talk to when you are alone. I hope that your friend will understand your problem and will not quarrel with you any more. Hope you find my advice good.