I need help for my friend, plz give me advice!?

Question

A couple of months ago a new girl came to school and me and some of my friend hung around with her.

She is BAD news! She's 13 but she says she is 15 even tho I have asked her parents.

SHe even has pix of nude guys on her phone!!

She insults everyone, she is racist, sexist and everything.

She called my friends dog g*y because its Dead.

She called me a life waster because I'm a Christian.

Now the only one of us that still likes her is my friend "L" I don't want 2 say her real name.

"L" Thinks she is really cool and when we tell her what she has been saying and doing she doesn't believe us.

OK now DON'T give me c**p on how its none of business because it is. "L" Is my best friend and if she keeps hanging with this girl she could get expelled!

I have told the teachers but they don't do anything.

I can't tell "L's" parents cause I never see them and they will just think I don't like "L's" friends.

So what do I do? Should I just not worry about it? Should I tell "L" everything until she believes me?

Pls help

Answer 1

Confucius says... You seem to be conservative and have not faced societies way of frequently using insults, and words such as "g*y"! Although that is not the issue, the issue is with your friend "L". If she is a true friend of yours she will eventually believe you. You should deffinately convince her that this new girl isn't an angel, with out getting all emotional about it, and deffinately do not just lay back and let her witness it herself otherwise she may be in the firing line, and be torn between two sides. Do not get angry when talking about this issue with your friend "L", because she'd just think your jeolous!

Wise confucius is always honest and right!

Answer 2

You've done the right thing by telling teachers (even if they were useless) and i can relate to your story only on my case i was "L".

you see i got in so deep wif this realli bad group that i was hooking up wif guys i'd never met b4 at parties were alcohol and drugs were goin around like soup, skipping skool and i even took smoking! b4 all this i was straight A student with a great social life. after i came to my sences an realised negative impact i was putting on my original friends and family, i realised how f*@%#k i was reali was.

If shes a smart girl she'll realise how stupid she was in the first place for hanging out if an idiot. if shes a true mate she'll knows where to come to for love and support and won't dump your friendship for th B^%&h you explained at the top.

im not saying that you should wait for her to make the first move but keep a close eye on her and tell her if shes falling into deep, and tell that dumb b*&^t you explainded to get a life!

Answer 3

Unfortunately it looks like she is going to have to find out for herself.  xox

Answer 4

let L hang around with her and let her witness... dont be dishearten when she calls u life waster... she dont know what she's saying... she will realize ( we hope and pray) that she will realize that she's the one.Just be friendly to her but never be like her...  

God bless

Answer 5

the only way i see to let "L" know of this girl's things is the way u found out abt her. thats the best way out!

else let her only find out

Answer 6

well sometimes you just have to let the people in your life make their own decisions... not that you aren't right to think you should help them, but they are the one to decide for themselves, be supportive

Answer 7

you could try to tell her that you think this girl is bad news. if she's your best friend, she'll listen to you & trust that you're looking out for her because you care.

if she doesn't listen to what you have to say, then leave it alone. she'll eventually find out for herself.