I need help girl help pplz?

Question

ok theres this girl i like shes got a bf so i dont wana ask her out yet but she goes to me that i mean more to her then her bf does and she has said it a few times now im thinking it may mean something more or it may mean she sees me as a brother which i serz dont want to

so how can u know for sure cause if she sees me as a bro thats good but not good enough know wat i mean?

so how can i know what she really means?

Answer 1

juz straight away ask her dude....b honest

Answer 2

she just treats u as a brother because of the fact that she has a girlfriend...period.

Answer 3

well I never recommend breaking up or interfering in a relationship. So if I were you I would just be there for her whenever she needs you. And once she has broken up from him, make the move.  

Answer 4

Hey

Well think about it like this if you never tell her you will never have the oppitunity to date her. You could end up always thinking what if???? and thats never great. The best thing you could do is tell her and nonot on a letter but face to face. Just tell her that you do not want to break her and her boyfriend up, but you had to tell her that you have feelings for her. Worst thing that could happen is she says no and you two remain friends. Let her know or another guy could hit on her or you could be wondering what if for the rest of your life?

Answer 5

oh my god. alright, im going to be totally truthful with you.

im pretty sure i got dumped last week by my boyfriend. his name was Adam. the story is very complicated because i moved 3,0000 miles away from him, and we've always had communication problems, blah blah blah... the point is, Adam's best friend is Clayton. Clayton is my best friend. when iwas dating Adam, i  sort of said to Clayton a number of times that i cared about him more than Adam. truthfully, i wasn't even really sure what i meant at the time, but i knew the statment was true. Clayton has always been there for me, and i've always thought of him as a brother... now that Adam is gone and i live soo far away from Clayton, i realize now that i screwed up. Clayton was the better guy- he's the one that calls me every day just to say "hi" - not Adam. i also realize that i love Clayton....and im starting to think it's not in a sibling kind of way.... ughhh. anyway- to help you, i wanted to let you know that as long as you're there for her, there might be hope. she might see the light before i did, and realize you're the better guy, you're the real deal. for now, im sorry, you gotta let her do what she wants...and if she does only care about you like a brother, you gotta accept it. i hope it works out. im really sorry i bored you to death with my sob story :)))