I need help. i'm a 17 year old girl who thinks that she pregnant.?

Question

i didn't have unprocteded s*x but i gave my boyfriend a hand job and the sperm got on my hand. we where out side so i could only wash my hand with cold water, no soap. when i went in side i had to go to the bathroom and im afraid i might of still have sperm on my had but i dont know. i have irregular periods so i dont know if i missed my period or not. i think i have spotting because my menstrual cycle never was that light. it happend twice, the first time it lasted about 5 days and it looks like blood colts. the second time was 2 days long and it was lighter. i haven't had the time to go get a pregnancy test yet. i just got the money to buy one but i have had the chance to get it. i would love to tell my parents but this already happened to my sister and all though she got her abortion and the support, i cant do the same because of the way i know my dad will treat me. its not bad but all the respect he has will be gone and i seek that respect alot. he did the same with my sister.

Answer 1

stress can change a lot of your physiology.  There are cases of what its called 'hysterical pregnacy', where the person identified gained weight, got a hug e belly, and all the other signs of pregnancy.  In the most extreme cases, some have  even goine into labor.  The only way you are going t oknow for sure isto take an HCG test, and then stress.

Answer 2

i dont think your pregnant hun.

Answer 3

I doubt your b/f is superman therefore no super sperm.

Your eggo is not preggo.

Don't waste money on a preggo test.If you want to take one for reassurance then get dollar store.Works just as well.

The sperm would not have survived.

Maybe you shouldn't be doing sexual favors if you you are not educated on s*x.

Answer 4

not likely, im paranoid when it some to this stuff (17 year old guy).. ive searched around and found sperm doesnt live that long unless its in a favorable enviroment( like body temperature, etc.)  once you washed with cold water they probobly died. Tell your boyfriend to have the decentcy to tell you when hes almost "there"

be careful though, they are determined little fellows

Answer 5

I really don't think you are pregnant, but you can never be to sure. As soon as you can, get a test. It'll probably turn out negative, but you never know!

All I can say to you is stop with all the sexual activity. You can have a healthy and happy relationship without s*x. Take this situation as an example and learn from it. Really think about what you do before you do it. Don't do anything you know you shouldn't do. Let yourself grow up before you start making decisions that could ultimately end your childhood.

Answer 6

you're not pregnant. period.

Answer 7

It's very, very, very unlikely that you're pregnant. Even if you did wipe yourself with sperm still on your hand, it's very unlikely that it went through the toilet paper and onto your genital area in a large enough amount to cause concern. Buy the pregnancy test if it'll make you feel better, but don't stress yourself out about it, you're most likely not pregnant. Good luck.

Answer 8

I highly doubt you are pregnant if you didnt have s*x.  I have had irregular periods too, never been pregnant, just see a doctor to try to become regular and dont have unprotected s*x!

Answer 9

did you let your hand touch your ....

Answer 10

Birth control is free at the health department. You should go there for your test and if it reads negative get on the pill or shot.

Answer 11

I seriously doubt you are pregnant if you have not had s*x.  The chances of you getting preg. by what you have described are slim to none.  However, to be sure, you have to have missed a period before a pg test will register positive.  Wait a week after you think you have missed, then test.

Answer 12

don't worry hun, you are definitely not pregnant. The thing is that you washed your hands!! Good job for doing that because sometimes people forget in the moment. So your hands were clean when you went to the bathroom. I've had a similar situation happen to me and I was not pregnant. Just from now be careful when fooling around so you won't have to worry like this again!

Answer 13

I doubt you are pregnant

Answer 14

sweetie,  calm down you are gonna make yourself sick. unless you shoved your hand p your v****a with the s***n you aarent prego, i mean a woman is more likely get preggo if she is relaxed and has orgasmed, you didnt even have intercourse. calm down take the test to prove to yourself that you arent but there is a 99.999999999999999999999999 chANCE that you arent

Answer 15

Your chances of getting knocked up here are so small. Not impossible though. It sounds like you did get your period. I don't think you are PG.

Answer 16

I really think you are ok. Don't worry. If everything happened just like you said, you are fine. Just be careful. Go get a test as soon as you can to put yourself at ease.

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Response to your update****

Remember how scared you are right now. It would be a hundred times worse if you actually had s*x without protection. Just remember that. Be careful. It's obvious you aren't ready to become a parent, so always use protection.

Even if , on the total off, off , off chance you are pregnant...

Do NOT put your life at risk by trying to perform an abortion. You are 17. Almost an adult. You know better than that. You deserve better than that and so does that baby. ( but I still really do not think there is a baby)

Good Luck! Calm Down..