I need help i am too shy?

Question

I need some help because I am too shy and I don't have many freinds. How can i break this habit of being too quiet. Like i dress nice,hair did, nails did, im pretty, bt i am quiet and i think I am too nice to people and i end up getting took advantage over...HELP

Answer 1

All you have to know is that most every one is shy but they do acting and they do it as well as they can and after a while they find out that they are very likable people........Just pretend like you know what your doing.  

Answer 2

Actually today,I girl told me to scoot over that I was in her spot,so I asked her,does it have your name on it?She looked at me for a second and then sat next to me.You just have to think,Im better than that.Ain't NO ONE gonna take advantage of me,and if I have something to say(that's good not bad of course)Then say it,you have the right.It's a free country.

Answer 3

Lol. We both have something in common :) I guess they take advantage of you knowing they can & that they'll be able to get away with it. It's not your fault if you're a saint! :) I seriously hate people like that. They don't deserve you as a friend.

I make all my friend's problems mine. But some way or another, they'd never make my problems theirs. It's about what you for others. Treat people the way you want to be treated but don't expect them to do the same. You'll only end up dissapointed :)

You're only human my dear. You're not perfect. You tend to get badly affected especially when one of your friends throws you a problem & you're unable to help. The feeling you get is nothing but misery.

Dont be too hard on yourself. Love yourself for being that soft, kind & loving person you are. Dont change. There arn't many out there who'd feel the way you do. That makes you extra special :)

Dont ever EVER consider yourself stupid. I know lots of people will labell you as that. Cause people are just taking advantage of you & you're just helpless. If you feel like they are; just move away from them :) Helping others does give you a kind of satisfaction dosn't it? But don't go through with it, if its at the expense of your health :)

When you can help, HELP! when you can't, just be that listening ear / that pillar of strength / reffer them to someone older who might be of better help or just be that friend & let them know you'll always be there. That itself is true friendship.

Take care :)

Answer 4

GURL FOR A MIN. I THOUGHT I WAS WRITING MYSELF. THIS IS THE EZACT SAME THING I BEEN GOING THROUGH NOW IN THE PROCESS OF ACTUALLY OPENING UP AND EXPIERIECING THE OTHER SIDE OF ME THAT I NEVER KNEW I HAD..

OOOOOOOOK MY ADVICE...

Dont try to change sometimes you cant, or you cant help it. Depending on how shy you really are or why? as far as me, I was shy cuz i never felt comfortable at all and I came to notice it was a self esteem issue..

So what im advising you to do is write down when your shy..and research the issue that you have and work on ways that will help you open up to people..

GOOD LUCK