I need help im 13!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

-im 13 and a boy

-not even my cousins talk 2 me

-i have no friends(not even 1)

-i get bullied

-i cry every day

-My sisters the definition of spoiled

-im never treated right

-i feel like a ghost

-i was put on earth for no reason

Answer 1

the only person who can change this is you, what are your hobbies or what do you enjoy? find this and find a class or group with the same interests and go to them, this a awkward age for anyone let alone if you feel so alone, try talking to your school counsellor or chaplain and they can help you with any negative feelings, good luck lad and life will get better but you need to put in a great effort also

Answer 2

Honey....you are not alone....what are your hobbies? It's is time that you get your butt up and go do something fun and exciting.....Do not be down on yourself....You must learn to HONK YOUR OWN HORN at times when you are feeling this way.....You have love all around you and God loves all of us.......Cheer up  

Answer 3

I know it feels like you were put on earth for no reason but that isn't true - if you had no purpose you wouldn't have been created. Try not to let your current circumstances discourage you - it won't be this way forever. Try talking to a trusted adult when things get overwhelming.

Answer 4

omg omg!!

dont worry!

you can be my friend!:)

do you want to talk about it all with me?

msn/email me: [e-mail]

Answer 5

I have a solution for you. Stand in front of the mirror and take both hands index finger and place them in your mouth and pull your mouth open. Now look at yourself. I gave you all the help you need.

Answer 6

God put you on the earth for a reason... And he cares about you. You need to ask a pastor about receiving Christ.

Answer 7

   Please don't talk like that. You ARE here for a reason!!! First, I think you need to see what's great about you, and tell yourself that you are worth it!!! Perhaps you are really good at a sport. Or you like to read. Maybe you are really smart in math. EVERYONE has talents. You need to really concentrate on the good in your life.

  Are there any clubs available at your school that you would like to join? Some people lean on religion at these times. Perhaps that may not be your preference. But you need to find something you are good at or something you really want to do and hang on to it for all it's worth. Work hard at it. Maybe you like to play video games...stores have competitions all the time and maybe you can make some new good friends there. Don't concentrate on how your sister is treated-- concentrate on you and ways to make your life more fun and productive for you. Teenage years are some of the hardest--but find at least one thing that you love and keep with it....this goes for all the hard times in your life. Sometimes it (the something you need to hold on to) may not be all that obvious amongst all the bad, but find it!! I know you can do it!!!! :)

Answer 8

Awh, theres a reason babe.  Highschool will be easier.  You're just having a tough time.  Whenever I am having a tough time socially and with my family I completely focus on my school stuff so I know I'll get somewhere in the future.  Just focus on what you want.  Figure out what you want, do it daily.  And eventually you will get the opportunity to get what you want.  Good luck bro, stay tough.

Answer 9

Aw sorry to here...my mom use to literally tell me I'm nothing but funiture, well if you need a friend hit me up at [e-mail] or myspace www.myspace.com/missflip87

Answer 10

What's the question?

Answer 11

hey i'm a girl and Im 14

I know how u feel cause this has happened to me before, when no1 talks 2 u

Answer 12

if you can find other people who have the same problems as you and see if they want to be your friend i bet they will

keep trying :)  

Answer 13

You need you shut up everyone was put on the earth for a reason trust me one day you'll be cool.

Answer 14

whats your question?

Answer 15

soooo, what is the question!

Answer 16

my msn is [e-mail]. ill help u through ur life if u want me too, trust me. life can get better if u really want it too.  

Answer 17

I'm 12 and a girl but...

My cousins don't talk to me either that is REALLY normual!

I have a few friends.

I don't get bullied but hey stand up for yourself!  People are just stupid,

Don't cry, it messes up your brain!

Is you sister one of those mean popular people? (Blah*)

You were put on earth for a reason everyone was!

Maybe you are a ghost!

Here e-mail me... [e-mail]

...and I won't baby you if that is what you want... but I will be your friend!

Answer 18

[e-mail]

msn add me

chat x

Answer 19

you need to show confidence in yourself and keep your head up.  if you come across unhappy, no one will like you.  the more proud you feel, the more people will see it in you.  don't take bulling from anyone. just walk away and don't stoop to their level.  be above them and tell them you're above them.  everyone has a reason on earth. you're young and haven't figured out your reason yet.  find a hobby or something that interests you, start easy online and find people with the same hobby you can chat with.  this will boost your confidence when people can't see you.  as it gets easier, start meeting the hobby people face to face.  just pick your head up high and don't let things get you down.  think hard if it's actually worth getting upset over and be honest about it.  adults call it picking your battles.  shrug off whats not important.

Answer 20

i'm sorry 2 hear that.

try making friends!

just say hi to ppl.   go to wikihow.com

talk 2 ur parents

Answer 21

Hey Im Melanie,{12 years old}

I suffered This last year in Middle school{6th grade} Anyways What helped me was getting good grades and joining sports..Im now one of the most popular kids in the 7th grade cause of what i did.Its your decision of how your going to live your life....Try to be strong and maybe even go to a counselor. Also have you ever talked to your parents if your struggling?? try that. Also if you still need help just add me as one of your contacts here or heres my email [e-mail]

Answer 22

I felt the same way when I was your age and I have a lot of sympathy for you. Try calling the Boys Town National Hotline [phone].  They can talk to you and help you with lots of different problems. Hope you feel better soon.  

Answer 23

This is called depression. I went through it at your age too and I kind of had  the same problems and feelings. This is dangerous territory especially if you haven't talked to anyone about it. There are ways to make your problems better but you have to work at it. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone like your parents or a professional psychologist. First off I want you to know you are not alone, you are at a very tuff stage in your life and people can be so cruel and insensitive to your feelings. If you don't get some proper help and guidance the way you feel now will only get worse. When I was your age and depressed I didn't speak to anyone or let anyone know how I felt and I ended up in a mental hospital due to an overdose. Back then I felt like no one cared and I gave up on hope that things would get better. From personal experience I found out (the hard way) that there is always light in the darkness you just can't give up on yourself just because things seem to be going badly for you right now. You have to start making things better by figuring out where your problems reside and then find solutions to these problems. Your parents or a professional (such as a psychologist or even school guidance counselor) can help you with this process. Depression is a nasty thing and it will consume you if you let it. You can fight this and find a way to make things work for you. First of forget what people think of you because they are bullies and judgmental. They are judging you instead of getting to know you which is wrong but sometimes that is just how the world works. Don't let anybody tell you you aren't good enough because you are. People want to tear you down and make you cry but don't let them take that energy from you. As for friends I didn't have any either and even people I thought were my friends stabbed me in the back. It turned out I was looking in the wrong places for friends. But the best advice I can give you is take it one step at a time. Tackle one problem and then move to the next. I truly advise you to turn to someone who can help you through this because it is never easy. Please don't hide away and let this depression take over talk to your parents they will be able to help. They might not know what you are going through so you need to bring it to there attention. Also go to your school guidance counselor. They will help you with the bullying situation. You know what else take some self defence classes because that will help you learn how to stand up for yourself and gain the respect you deserve. Please hang in there I have been there too and I can honestly tell you that things can get better if you work at it. If you need any further guidance email me through my profile. Believe it or not there are people out there who do have a heart and care about those in need. Good Luck, Hope I helped some.

Answer 24

- you have a birthright to be the person you are.

- you are good enough as you are, this goes for everyone.

- there is a strength within you that no one can steal or threaten. it made you survive all the way through. connect to that.

- you are in the age that you can expect all kinds of very strong feelings, it's a learning phase. please be comforted by that idea.

- naturally you want to be seen, heard and understood. if that is not the case with the people around you, focus on people that can do that.

- don't worry about your sister, she'll learn also.

- making friends is easy as soon as you focus on the abundance instead of the lack. for sure there are boys that long for a friend too.

- make a habit of forgiving yourself for all the little or bigger things you are not proud of. as a result, you'll start to forgive others, even the bullies. you'll see there ignorance, they are young too.

take care & hang in there!

Ronald