I need help im so counfused about my sexuality?

Question

I like girls totally in to them. but lately i been interested in the same s*x I'm 19 now and notice I'm liking guys and fantasizing about them. But cant see my self with a guy doing it. Am i g*y or am i turning bi and has anyone ever felt this way so late in their teen years

Answer 1

Youre not weird...I love guys and love everything about the s*x.. but sometimes I am fantasized by the way my boyfriend feels about girls...but I dont want to have s*x with them

Answer 2

Sexuality is fluid it constantly changes yes it is normal to have feelings of someone of the same s*x and as you get older this may change you may feel more attracted or less attracted to them but just go with the flow and enjoy it.

Answer 3

Sorry, I can't relate to these feeling. It does sound like you might turning g*y. Try to find a woman you can relate too, quickly.

Answer 4

You don't "turn" anything...nor does lack of choice in one gender lead one to seek out the other... You're attracted to whatever you're attracted to... look for love and see where that goes... In the end, a label isn't going to matter ...

Answer 5

I think it's normal to have thoughts but once you take the action that is when it becomes real... also i do not think that all guys have these fantasies....

Answer 6

I've only recently accepted myself as g*y. I really haven't had a relationship with either s*x, but I found myself more attracted to the women around me than the men when I was somewhat 'hanging out' with a guy that did like me.

But in your situation, I think you might be Bisexual or Bicurious.

Answer 7

All straight guys, although most won't admit it, fantasize about having s*x with another man. It's up to you if you act on it or not. If you really think about it a lot eventually you might even try it, then you'll know if you are bi or not. It might just be curiosity.

Answer 8

so you fantasize about guys, but can't see yourself doing 'it' with a guy....so what's the fantasy about?  strolling into the sunset? holding hands in the library?

it could be you're confused about what sexuality is versus just friendship and feelings that you don't have to do anything about.

Answer 9

Don't worry about this.  It's all a part of discovering one's sexuality.  This is coming a little late for you, but that doesn't mean that no one else has ever experienced the same thing.  Just ignore the frustrated feelings and go on with your life, enjoying every minute of it.  

Answer 10

Your bi-curious

Me too :)

Hey it's not a bad thing, just try it out

Maybe go to a g*y bar or something

Or ask a g*y guy that you know for advice.

But if you like someone that is a guy just go for it, don't be afraid to break out of your comfort zone because you thought you were straight before

Answer 11

I think that your bi-curious. nothing wrong with that.

Answer 12

I think that your just bi-curious. There is nothing wrong with it. So don't worry to much about it. =)