Alright so, for the explaination, we will call this guy joe.
So, joe and i dated for 7 or 8 months, and at one point I went away for 2 weeks to visit some relatives, at this point, joe and i were not on good terms, we were having a minor relationship conflict, but we both knew we just needed some time apart to think. so, for the time i was away joe and i didnt really talk. anyways so when i got home, my mom was like bragging to me saying that joe had texted her and said how much he missed her and how he wanted to hang out with her and stuff. so, i was pretty much like heartbroken to the extreme at that moment. anyways a few days later i found out from a few people that i had gone to school with, not really friends of mine, just aquaintances (that work for my mom) that she had actually been the one that texted joe and told him how much she missed him and stuff and invited him to their apparentment (shes like a friend to them all so she hangs with them sometimes). anyways, so they hang out in a room for a while and then she gets him to leave... and then she gets him to come back when she thought everyone was sleeping. [information from the aquaintances and from joe] i confronted her about this infront of the aquaintances and she just started the "whatever" thing with me and then left. joe and i got sick of trying to be happy together with my mom always causing problems so we broke up. joe and i have not talked in 3 months because its just hard because there is ALOT of love there still but wejust cant handle all the stress of it right now. my mom is constantly bragging to me when she sees him or talks to him...and shes always trying to get him to hang out with her and such... ive told her a million times how much this all hurts me and she tells me that i just need to get the F&%k over it and that she can do what she wants with who she wants.
I have lost alot of respect for her and i deem her untrustworthy, but she thinks its irrational and that i shouldnt be like that. and that i have no reason to lose respect for her or deem her untrustworthy because she says shes done nothing wrong.
how would you feel?
am i being irrational?
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