I need help picking a bridesmaid?

Question

I'm just torn about who to choose

1. Tonya.. We were best friends between the ages of 2-13. We lost touch for many years and now she lives in the same town, but we haven't hung out, nor do we talk much.

2. Shelley.. We've been friends for about 4 years. She's been to many of our family parties. I met her through my brother whom she had a major cush on. We're on the same softball team, but that's really the only time I see her now.

3. Shannon.. I've know her for about 4 yrs also. I don't see her too often, but we're getting closer lately. Her and her husband come hang out with us even when we don't have anything going on.

I love all 3 girls, and this is so difficult for me.

Give me your opinions... Thanks

Answer 1

Shannon

Answer 2

Shannon looks like the best bet as far as i've read...Congrats

Answer 3

If you don't feel that any one of them is the one who you want as your last bridesmaid why pick any? You have a bridal party already.

Answer 4

I'd pick Shannon, she's the one you are closer to right now. The other gals seem to have drifted to acquaintence status.

Answer 5

Um, why can't you just have three bridesmaids?? I've never been to a wedding where there was only one bridesmaid.

Answer 6

Shannon. She's the only one you hang out with anymore.

And perhaps Shelley could do a reading or light some candels as she is your second closest friend!

Answer 7

Pick all 3 of them if you could!

Answer 8

Shannon. She seems to be a true friend of yours.

Answer 9

I would say don't pick Tonya.  You guys aren't really friends any more.  Invite her to the wedding if you want her to be a part of it, but it is too much responsibility to ask her to be in the wedding when you guys don't talk anymore.

I would say Shannon would be the best one to choose because it sounds like she is a real good friend.  You guys hang out on regular time and aren't just associates.  Shelley sounds like you used to be good friends, but the friendship has kinda slipped away a little.  

Answer 10

You have a 17 year old SON and you're having a big hoopla wedding like a 20 year old? Good grief!! Ever hear of good taste and class? Drop the 4 brides "maids" , keep the MOH and tone this spectacle down a whole lot! At your age it's time for a little restraint and a more serious approach to your vows. I mean, really... those rich babes like Ivana Trump and Liza Minnelli have huge weddings just to sell photos and be the centre of attention and people laugh at them as being silly old bags! Just let your son walk you down the aisle and stop acting like a schoolgirl!

Answer 11

Why can't they all be your bridesmaids?  Did you mean Made of Honor?  If so, then go with Shelley.

Answer 12

I would pick Shannon, you two seem the closest right now. It also seems like she would have the most time to help you with wedding details since she has time to just "hang out" with you guys. Oh, congrats on the upcoming wedding. :)

Answer 13

Shannon.  It sounds like you spend the most time with her.