I need help please!!!!

Question

my mom and my sister just had a huge fight, they were in the shower , my sister is 8 and if i didnt know any better i'd say that its hormones, she repeatedly told my mom that she hated her, doesnt love her anymore, is gonna run away, leave me alone, etc. anything that would hurt moms feelings, theyre both in their rooms crying, i want this to stop, i have a great relationship with both of them, and hate to see them this way, anything i could say or do to help with this would be great, and please no coments that its their thing that they need to work it out on their own because thats not gonna happen my sister is very stubborn anything that you think that could help please write, i dont want them to hate each other!!!!

Answer 1

well, you can maybe get closer to your sister and she can confide in you. that way she will feel like she is not alone, listen to why she is yelling things. kids do and say stuff, but there is something that is not right, she may want attention, if so have family dinners together game night. we all sit down together at night for dinner and say what we are thankful for and see how everyone is. i would suggest your mom go and talk with her and if you are all comfortable with each other and close maybe have a family meeting.  

Answer 2

Ask your dad to help out....Maybe you can be the tie breaker here, tell both of them about how you feel...Anyway, how can a 8 yr old have a fight with your mom? What is this world coming to?

Answer 3

tell your sister straight to her face that she just insulted the woman who gave her life, now that just makes me mad, you're never supposed to treat your mom like that

btw your sis needs counseling, if she's yelling to a point where it scares you, then that's already getting to the point where she needs help, lol you know sometimes my mom would scare me when i yelled at me, she put me in the car and took me to the police station and said to me "i could give to an orphanage right now" and NOW and know that she was just trying to change me into a better person, but that seems kinda hard considering she actually WANTS to run away, buttt you tell her since she's eight, you tell her "let's see how you last one day without your family, you can't do it" cuz cmon she's 8 she's not really gunna run away is she?

Answer 4

They were in the shower together?

WTF?

Answer 5

talk to your sister first and tell her that what she said was really hurtful to  your mother and she needs to apologize.. then talk to your mom and remind her that she's just a kid and didn't mean it

Answer 6

is their anyone who can play pig in the middle to help them both?whats at the root of it?whats upsetting your sister,something must be?ask her whats wrong and why she is behaving like this?is she ill or has something happened you dont know about?does she get enough attention?most people that lash out,its a cry for help.could your dad or a family member or counselling help?good luck ,i hope everything works out,but remember theres always a reason behind things.dont be too harsh on your sister.i feel sorry for her,bless her!

Answer 7

I would first go to my sister and ask what that was all about and try to get as much information as you can so you can really understand what's going on in her head. I'm not sure I would tell my parents right off until something really significant comes up. You'd have to use your best judgment here.  If your sister feels like she can talk to you, then maybe some of the pressure will be off her.