i am a 18 year old female and one of my best friend is an 18 year old male. we have known each other for just over 7 years!
i am a bit confused sometimes over our friendship, when i was 13/14 we started seeing each other but nothing serious, i never knew how serious he was about me as there was always rumors flying around school about him hooking up with other girls.
but typically as girls were i was attached to him and since then i have never been able to let go, always getting jealous when he was with different girls.
things only got serious when we were 15 and slept together for the first time and since then it seems as though we have a great friendship we feel so comfortable around each other but he uses me for sexual pleasure, but i can never say no or get swept away and then don't hear from him in days.
every girlfriend he has he has cheated on them with me ( which i know is harsh), and every time i get close to another guy to move on i always seem to compare them with him and there is no comparison.
he gets very jealous if im seeing another guy or hears im with someone then decides to pop back up in my life.
lately, hes been making remarks of how we're like a married couple and we know each other inside out and i really dont know how to take it.
its my cousins wedding on friday and their having a garden party after and he is my guest our families know each other which is also a plus, but i know all my family are goin to think we are together and they know so much about us, im just humiliated to say that im in love with him and im getting the jist thats hes not interested and just wants me when he needs me.
i would really like your opinions i think i have given you the overall situation of out complicated relationship, please help and suggestions on what you think i should do, but bearing in mind i dont want to lose our friendship.
thankyou
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