I need help what shoould i do ???

Question

okay me and my baby father live together are living together but not dating hes very controlling and he doent want me 2 hang out with anyone who he doent like andi have to ask him if my famil can take the kids but he doent ???? what should i do he gets to go out whenver come in whatver i was thinking of moving but dont have enouh money and he wont move soooo does any one have any ideas what i should do cause ny family doesnt have enough room for me and im miserable here hes to contolling he thinks hes my dad and i have to listen to him i tired of it im in depression and **** sooooo give me some ides how to move etc to get awy from im thanks

Answer 1

your first priority is your child.  everything that happens to you and everything that you do has a direct impact on them.  i think you need to start organising your life...  never do anything drastic on a whim.  there are many family planning clinics listed in the phone book... alot of these are free and confidential.  try contacting a couple of them.. speak with them and you will be able to bounce ideas off people qualified to help you.  if things are getting really bad, such as physical violence, there are womens shelters around.  i know they may not sound pleasant, but once again, the people there will be able to help you find more suitable accommodation and they will get you out of the firing line in the mean time.  have you tried talking to this man and telling him how u feel? maybe all thats needed is for some groundrules to be set?  but whatever you decide to do, just make sure ur doing the right thing for ur child.  good luck!