I need help wit protection and s*x.?

Question

Okay so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while now and we both want to have s*x, but were not sure because were both virgins and worried because she could get pregnant and were not ready for a baby. How do we properly put on a condom? and any other methods to reduce the chance of pregnancy? also shes scared at 1st how can i help her to overcome her fear of doing it?

Answer 1

Okay first of all dude. Are you sure your gf is serious about it? Maybe she is saying that because she feels you really want to? Anyway. A condom is not enough if your seriously paranoid like me.

1. The pill. Get your gf on this and she wont get pregnate as long as she doesnt forget to take a pill everyday. See a doctor about which pill is right for you.

2. Diaphram. It is a dome made out of rubber that cover the cervix (opening of the womb) and it is covered in spermicide gel( it kills sperm). Again she has to see a doctor so he can feel how her vigina is shaped and custom make one for her. He will also show her how to apply it. Best not to do this first as she is a virgina her hymen might still be intact and it will hurt if he sticks his fingers inside her.

Thats all I can think of. Best to see a doctor so they can advise you on other options. Also make sure you both are ready for this especailly her. If you do do it. BE GENTLE. Okay? Good luck.

Answer 2

oh, lord- you guys are way too young to be having s*x yet. way too young. wait a few years, grow up a bit, and then think about s*x.