I need help with a friend??? please help!?

Question

My friend and her family are starting a dance team at our school, and I want to join cuz my friend had to give up dance at my dance studio. heres that story: My dance instructor and my friends mom (who also dances) were fighting about something and it apparently got him so mad that he kicked the whole family out! so shes all mad and hates my dance studio but i love it still! and i have dance three days a week and the dance team three days a weak. now i have the dance tem at the same time as one of my dance classes and I dont know what to do??? my social life will be shot if i do this but everytime i mention not being able to do the dance teammy friend get pissed at me???!!! what should I do?????

Answer 1

Stay at the dance school and if your friend is angry, let her be angry. She doesn't get to call the shots in your life. You're not part of her feud with the dance instructor, and you don't have to participate in it. If this friend doesn't like the fact that you run your own life, that's her problem and not yours.

Answer 2

Do whats best for you. Go with whichever dance studio you like, and whichever one you will benefit. Explain that to your friend, and if she still gets mad, then think about it, she doesnt want you to benefit..does that make sense?