I need help with a problem with my gf i had s*x with her and i got hiv?

Question

she doesnt no i have it but its a secret but i was doing a couple of her friends as well i feel bad cause i got alot of secrets im 34 and i just had a kid i just want my family to be happy should i just tell her to deal with this and go to her bestfriend and leave my kids? what should i do HELP PLEASE????

Answer 1

Hmmm that is some serious stuff dude, your having unprotected s*x with her friends and go and have s*x with her, and you know you have hiv wow that aint right at all. If you tell her that you gave her hiv and you knew about it , she is gonna kick you out on your *** and tell you to take a hike . You need to tell her for her safety she needs to go get tested to see if she is infected after 3 months of explosure. Do the right thing! An if you have to leave your kid over the choice you made that is what you got to do. Cause it is gonna turn out that way after you tell her anyways or she may be stupid enough to keep you around. Who knows! If my boyfriend or husband was going around ******* my friends unprotected and he went and got tested and he knew that he had something like hiv and **** me unprotected and kept it a secret , I prolly would kill him.! Simple as that...

Answer 2

What kinda friends does she have!!?! Well she dont gotta know YOU HAVE IT. forget that now! she has it and its all your dirty fault and yes be ashamed. You and her "friends" and her need to all talk and see who's the real culprit. Its probably impossible to see who infected who first because whoever probably had it for years. If you want your family to be happy, the other alternative is to x-nay the part about s******g her friends, unfortunately lie and say you've had it for years and didn't know blah blah, HELP HER DEAL TOGETHER, and if she's still around raise the kids and just go on with life and see what happens then. As far as the friends go, dont ask dont tell.

Answer 3

you should tell everyone you have had sexual contact with that you have HIV. And STOP having s*x with ppl unless you are safe and make them aware of your HIV first. I think it might even be illegal to have unprotected s*x with someone if you know that you are HIV positive. Not 100% sure though.  

Answer 4

u gonna go to jail, thats against the law to sleep with someone and u know u have that disease... if she presses charges u could face jail time

Answer 5

You need to tell your gf you are infected.  It is illegal for someone with HIV to have unprotected s*x with someone else without telling them they are infected.

You also need to tell all of your other sexual partners that you are infected, so that they (and your gf, too) can get tested.

Answer 6

You need to tell her because she might have been infected. As far as I know, it is only a crime to have s*x with another person while having HIV if you KNOW that you are HIV positive. If you found out your status AFTER sleeping with her, then I don't think you have broken any criminal statutues.

The right thing to do would be to notify her that you are positive and advise her to be tested. You should also find out which one of those women whom you slept with her positive, and if they knew their status. If they did knowingly have HIV when they slept with you, it is a serious crime and you should have them arrested.

HIV is no longer a death sentence. They have all kinds of anti-virals to help people put off the development of AIDS. The important thing is to start anti-virals AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, so you can live the longest life possible. Tell your gf your status because if she is positive, she also needs to start as soon as possible.

Also, tell everyone before you have s*x relations with them that you are positive, or you could go to prison for a long time if you don't.

Answer 7

Do you fully understand what you have just done here and the consequences of it.?

You have freely admitted to attempted murder.  You will be reported to Yahoo who then has an obligation to report you to the proper authorities.  I would suggest that you contact an attorney while you await the knock on your door, which is sure to come.