I need help with a really clingy friend/ex-girlfriend?

Question

Okay so last year I met a girl through mutual friends and we became good friends. She eventually asked me out, and I said yes, but we broke it off after a week, but remained friends. Since then she has asked me out at least five times, each time I have said no. Every time I don't talk to her for one day she always assumes I'm mad at her. She always wants me to only hang out with her and she still likes me. We have stopped being friends a couple of times before but she eventually always wants to be friends again. She texts me 24/7 and its really annoying. She is getting on my nerves! How do I make her stop bugging me all the time without hurting her feelings? Oh yeah, and whenever I ignore her texts she ALWAYS will resend it over and over again.

Answer 1

Wow, dude thats creepy I have the EXACT same situation, even about the texts. And shes always telling me "im going to the movies with my new bf", and I know shes just sayin that to get me jealous because I asked her "bf" and he said hes single. All I did was come out and tell her shes being to attached to me and asked her to lay off a little. She understood and now everythings fine ( she still likes me though ) Just tell her how you feel about it and she'll eventually stop.

Good luck

Answer 2

ignore it or tell her 2 stop be ing clingy 4 a while

I had a freind like that i ignore'd her than then toled her to stop talking to me 4 a while and it worked! but she's not sad cause now we talk...

Answer 3

You need to be honest with her.  I know you don't want to hurt her feelings, but it seems like she can't take a hint.  

Answer 4

You just need to tell her how you really feel and then cut her off cold turkey. Some people become worse than emotionally attached to others they become obsessive and it sounds like this girl is absolutely nuts. Tell her "Listen we've tried to be friends many times and it's too wierd for me. I need my space and I think we should stop talking. I think it's for the best." I bet you she will still call after a few days but if you don't want to talk to her then don't answer. Sooner or later she will get the picture and move on to annoying someone else.  

Answer 5

no matter what you say to her to let her down it is going to hurt.

be truthful with her. tell her you are not interested in being her boyfriend and that if you two are to remain friends then she needs to respect your boundries, i.e. not texting,talking to, or hanging out with you 24/7. Tell her that if she can't not respect that, then you two can simply not be friends.