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I'm an adult male and I'm temporarily away from my wife for reasons beyond our control. When we get together again we'd like to start trying for a baby. I've heard that not masturbating will actually increase the amount of sperm that go inside my wife when I eventually do ejaculate inside her again. How can I resist the urge to m********e? I got used to it the last time I was single and got back into the habit again when I went away without my wife recently. If I don't I lose sleep by waking up in the middle of the night with a full erection and this makes me unnecessarily tired during the day. I would appreciate any advice that can help me solve this problem or help my wife and I conceive or both.

Answer 1

erections should not wake you up, does it bang on your chest! all that should happen is that it stops you rolling out of bed. Give it a hard flick and it will go.

Answer 2

two or three days will give you full fertility so get on with the w-nking till then

Answer 3

glue some sandpaper to your hand....

or just find something to take yourmind of it. like colouring in!! ^^

Answer 4

Musique guérit toutes les blessures mentale ...

Answer 5

Put crocodile clips on your gentleman.

Answer 6

Hi, It won't really help, as sperm is only active for a while and it needs to renew itself. Just a day or so is enough for your sperm/s***n to have regenerated..so just cease to m********e the day before you know you will be getting with her.

Masturbation is healthy as long as it is done in moderation and it will not fault your chances of a baby.

Answer 7

It's not the amount of sperm, it's the quality. There's billions in every, er, outburst.  

Are you at all concerned that there might be any problems (known or not) with you two conceiving?

I'd say go grab some paper and go and just relieve yourself!  You're sperm quality will always be better if you are in good health and shape, and that includes getting enough sleep! Also the frustration shows in men who aren't getting any - it'll start affecting other areas of your life too....  As for conceiving tips, see how it goes first and if it doesn't happen after a reasonable amount of time, then there's LOADS to women on here under the 'trying to conceive' section who could offer suggestions. After which your wife can look at all the 'am I pregnant' back catalogue :)    

Answer 8

I'm pretty sure it's waiting about a week without masturbation before your try to impregnate your wife. It makes sperm more concentrated if you don't m********e, which gives you more of a chance of impregnating her. You can keep masturbating until she comes back and is in the time of her cycle when she ovulates. No need to torture yourself until then. And, conceiving can happen in one try or can take months. If you worry too much about it, the stress of worrying can lessen your chances. Relax and "go with the flow". Don't worry too much about it.

Answer 9

I don't think you lose the chance of having a baby, by masturbating, as s***n is replenished within about 24 hours. If you try to resist the urge to m********e when you want to, you will only get frustrated. Just carry on "doing what comes naturally", and don't worry.

Answer 10

its not the case anymore, its been found s*x more often and masturbation can keep your sperm more active.

Answer 11

always have friends over... they will keep you busy and you wont feel the urge to m********e.

Answer 12

its called willpower

Answer 13

dude if you are funtioning normally you should have no problem conciving. you body makes sperm constantly and you shoot about 500,000 each ejaculation so if the contitions are right one of them should find the egg

good luck

curtdude  

Answer 14

You are continually producing sperm so er please yourself. Provided your sperm count is normal you should be ok. Good Luck with the conception!