My boyfriend has 2 wonderful boys, 6 & 8 years old. We have been dating and living together for 2 years. The boys mom and I agree basically on everything parenting wise. My bf is an extremely sensitive guy, who takes everything personal. His oldest son is the same way. We have the boys every 2 days.. When we have them, the oldest cries over everything! If he stubs his toe (no blood), if his brother took the wrong pillow for bed, hungry, tired, cry, cry, cry. My bf's idea on how to deal with this is talking to him... I think that is great but I have been watching this for 2 years and he still crys over something everytime we have him. Good example from the other day... I was playing with him when he was doing his homework... Each wrong answer he got I would poke him with a never been sharpened pencil... He loved it... He kept putting wrong answers... I poked his bellybutton and he broke into tears!! You hurt me, he said... I explained I didnt mean to hurt him. Kept crying. Im at a loss!
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