I need help with getting over my ex?

Question

We met a few times on the bus before exchanging numbers and sporadically texting over the next year. Then we found each other on Facebook and MySpace, started really talking and figured out we lived close to each other. Anyway, we started dating a few days later and were for 11 1/2 months and were madly in love. She broke up with me, citing that she wasn't sure she was in love with me anymore. I agreed with it because I don't believe two people should be in a relationship if one of them doesn't wish to be anymore. We've decided to remain friends because we do get along very well and enjoy each others company.

My problem is that I still deeply love her and it pains me daily that I can no longer express it. It's been just about two months, and I'm very slowly getting over her, but I wonder if there's a way I can faster. I don't want to give up the friendship tho, and I know she doesn't either. Any and all suggestions are highly appreciated. Thank you.

Answer 1

You cannot get over someone quickly enough if you stay friends with her. I suggest that you do not contact her for a while, maybe give it a month or two. It helps to get through the healing process if you don't see or hear from the one who's causing your pain. Try to keep yourself busy. Read books, play computer games, workout, hangout with other friends, whatever. Just try to keep your mind off her. Focus on other things in life, like your family or career. When you've finally gotten over her, then it's ok to see her again.

Answer 2

get a hobby and something u can do everyday....so it'll get ur mind off of her...hope this helps

Answer 3

If you remain friends and see each other all the time then you'll never get over her.I'm in the same boat as you me and my sons father have went our own way and now we are friends for our son seck but it hurts me seeing him all the time so now we have someone come to get our son when its his turn to see him .I'm not over completely yet but it helps not seeing so much.So cut back on see each other so much it will get better I promise!!