Hey,
I got out of a 5 yr relationship in march, yes it's been awhile but still... anyway, I left him cuz of his drug/drinking habits and he just stopped paying attention to me, it just always seemed like he didn't want to commit 100% to me. Anyway, I haven't talked to him at all, he tried contacting me via txt msgs a few times but I didnt write back, I went to Europe for 2 months and didnt try to date or meet anyone new, I just wanted to clear my head.... so when I come back, I hear that he has a girlfriend who he started dating after 4 months after I broke up with him. . . . I contacted him to talk to him see whats going on how he's been etc. and then he tells me that I broke his heart and that he's been miserable and that he still loves me and can never love anyone like the way he loves me and that he started dating to forget me so he could finally move on.... one thing leads to another we got very emotional and had a very deep conversation and we ended up kissing... it gave me hope I guess that we might get back together, then he tells me that he cant and that he wants to stay with this new girl, she is nothing like me at all, I'm in medical school, I don't really drink or go to bars, I like more of a chill atmosphere with friends, and this girl is a total party/bar hopper, she works at hooters and she has a dancer job on the side(like a stripper or go-go dancer cuz i saw pics of her in lounderie saying she's at work).... anyway, I just felt like he lifted me up and then brought me down again and just wrecked my life again by giving me some hope... out of hurt I msg her telling her that we kissed, I didnt go into details and he turns it all around saying that I tried kissing him and he didnt move fast enough so the kiss happened and he told her all these elaborated stories about how I'm a psycho and that he was never happy with me etc to keep her..... which worked....
and now i'm just really hurt, he stopped all contact with me and I'm hurt because he called me psycho and told her some secrets that he shouldnt have told her and is going around saying that im psycho to everyone and how i want him.... it just really hurts and i cant stop thinking about it, or stop thinking about him... yes i should prolly move on w someone else but im not really looking or have found anyone i can see myself with. I just dont know what to do..... i have nightmares about this and can't get it out of my head, can't relax, i just want to yell at him and flip out for doing what he did, especially for reasons why we broke up also and the **** he put me thru in our relationship.... how do i get past this?
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