I need help with my dad?

Question

My dad smacks me on the bum when I walk past him and just now I was wearing a big tshirt and he walked past and bent over and looked up it and I said what are you doing and he said he was checking if I had any underwear on and I really dont like it especially now that its my time of the month. when he does this and I call him a weirdo because I dont know how else to make him stop and my mum tells me im overreacting and he doesnt mean it in a pervy way but it still makes me really uncomfortable and now I'm sitting in my room crying and my mum just came up and asked me what the matter is and when I told her she got angry with me and said to stop overreacting and she wont do anything about it I have made her tell him to stop but he doesnt and she thinks im being stupid and theres nothing I can do. Please help me I'm sitting here crying my eyes out and I dont know how to get my mum to help me

Answer 1

First off, you need to be fully dressed around the house if there is ANYONE of the opposite s*x. Second, it is inappropriate for him to touch any part of your anatomy. Third, what is your mother thinking for allowing it to happen. It sounds really creepy and I would tell someone who is willing to listen.

Answer 2

Next time he does it f*ckin smack him and tell him if he even thinks about it again your going to call childrens aid. That should keep him away. If not you need to call the police, he is basically one step away from raping you. Your dad has no right to touch you like that since your 16 and basically almost a grown woman. I would drop kick my dad if he tried that c**p. You mom is in denile. Try telling someone else your close to, grandparents for example. Please don't let him continue to do this abuse.  

Answer 3

well tell them u r old enough to know how to put on ur underwear.  if he does not stop i would say tell an adult u trust because whathe is doing to you is wrong.

Answer 4

In my eyes thats assult, call the police

Answer 5

If your mom wont help which she should I would just tell my dad straight out that you dont think its apropriate and you want him to stop. Tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel. In my opinion it is perverted. My dad has so much respect for my sisters and I and to me what your father is doing is not right. He does not respect you. Why dosent your mom see that. Good luck!!! Since you are only 16 is there some other older family member that you can tell?  

Answer 6

Umm thats just strait up digusting no dad should be looking up there 16 year old daughters shirt is he drunk ? and your mom is  on crack if she thinks theres nothing wrong with  that and she thinks ur overreacting  sit your mom down and talk to her tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable when he does that and if he does it again tell him to stop good luck  

Answer 7

some thing is very wrong here. either your dad does not want you to grow up.or the way he feels about you is very very incorrect.your mum may not understand what you are feeling.she may also be worrird. talk to someone you can trust . a freind maybe.what ever you do do not keep quite about this.love susan

Answer 8

ur dads a perv call rspcc or another number 4 help which im sure someone will give or i think there will be a number on a bus or phonebox wait just look in the yellow pages.

ps looking down your shirt and spanking is not normal for dads and is he a step dad and if so look at dear deidre and that would explain a lot if not he's sick in the head and needs help.