I need help with my dad??

Question

i love him. but he always is yelling at me for no reason.

he constantly calls me fat & a **** up.

i didnt do anything to him.

he cant love me for who i am. he is always telling me to wear american eagle and ****. and thats just not me.

i dont know what i can do.

he isnt the kind of person to sit down and talk to either.

i go to my moms sometimes on the weekends. and i honestly dont want to leave there.

we used to have a great relationship. but its getting worse and worse as the days come and go.

i listen to music as much as i can to get me away from him.

and i do love him. but i dont know what to do.

he doesnt believe in me anymore.

im going into highschool this year. and he keeps telling me to get used to working at mcdonalds (when i never did anyway.)

and he keeps telling me to get a job. but im only 14. and ive asked to get a job; yet he says no..?

and he really brings my self confidence lower than it already is.

any advice?

Answer 1

you need to write him a letter and explain that he is hurting your feelings. tell him what you said on here: he lowers your self confidence and makes you feel badly. tell him that you dont feel like he cares about your feelings or you and that you're very hurt. tell your mother too! please be careful. try talking to a school councelor! I know how you feel! i have a dad that is wrong too! i have a question on my profile about my dad too! if you have any advice too it would help! i hope everything gets better for you!

-im so sorry for you! God Bless!