I need help with my little sister

Question

My little sister is 10 years old but she aces like she is 2. I am supposed to watch over her and protect her but she rejects every command I tell her to do. When she is angry, she becomes a "She-Hulk". Sometimes she goes around the house screaming, mocking me, and randomly hitting me (she does this in public to). Sometimes she hits me so hard that it is not me who gets hurt, but her. So she crys and crys saying I hurt her and then she goes tells my parents. Like all little sisters, she is a pest. She takes little things out of proportion such as a disagreement. It seems every time I calmly talk to her about it, she gets louder and louder. I was just doing that 5 minutes ago and I got screwed over because of it. Can anybody help me???

Answer 1

Sounds to me like she is trying to get your attention. Do you play games with her, include her in what you are doing. Secondly, don't command her anything, ask her nicely and compromise with her. Give her choices and let her decide. If you have friends over, a lot of that behavior would be to get attention from them. All she really wants is to fit in and be wanted. If you ignore her, blow her off, she will annoy the devil out of you. If she looks up to you, set the example of what an older sibling has to offer a younger sibling. Negative attention is attention all the same. Doesn't make a difference to someone that is trying to get your attention to spend time with her. Anyway, give that a try. Could work. Good luck to you.  

Answer 2

Two words:

NANNY 911

Set up video cameras and show you parents what she does.

Answer 3

I am a mom of 4 and yes, that is a problem. My oldest daughter got so mad she set up cameras in the house and we ended up on T.V.

   The truth is she just wants attention and she wants you to like her and be friends with her.

Answer 4

Promise her a day of just you and her and allow her to pick what you do on one condition. That she stops hitting and that she stops screaming etc; Keep the date and enjoy it. If she starts acting up again, then let her learn her lesson by not keeping the date. She wants to be with you but doesn't know how to get you to like her. She acts up to get your attention. Don't reward bad behavior but reward good behavior.  

Answer 5

Not even going to lie I use to be exactly like your little sister. Until the age 13 I didn't want anything to do with my older brother. I can honestly say I just wanted to be an only child and I was an attention hogging brat. I'm just going to say don't ignore her or anything live with it for a few more years and I'm almost positive she will grow out of it. Tell your parents privately that she's actually hurting you. I don't know if this intrests you in any way, but me and my older brother since I've turned 14 are really really close, and I honestly can call him one of my best friend. Girls go through funky stages, just try your best to live with it.

Answer 6

look i see were ur coming fro. when she mocks u punish her. i used to make my lil bro sit in a cahair when he misbehaved. if he stood up i added 5 minutes. try punishing her by using the chair or standing in the corner. if she refuses unplug the comp or tv. tell her why u are doing wat ur doing so she knows. hopfully this works dude