I need help with my step dad? it's getting really hard?

Question

well to start off i'm 14 and my step dad is 45 and i've only known him for 2 and a half years. He's already been to jail for assualting one of my family members and he has a really rough background and a bad childhood. I feel as if though the only thing he has been doing is targeting me and trying to stress out me and my mom, i mean he wakes up really early in the morning and makes a lot of noise just to disturb my sleep. and whenever me and my older sisters are not home he goes into our room and goes through all of our things. like one time i even caught him doing it..

but lately things have been getting worse. He won't stop calling me g*y and a homosexual and it really hurts my feelings because i'm not g*y at all. And like he keeps calling me a mother f***** to my mother and it hurts so much! I'm starting to think that he may be a con of some kind because he always tend to try and sway people into his way including my mom against me and my sisters. I can just tell my his eyes his hatred for me so much! his presence intimidates me so much and I know he knows that and it really scares me. His oldest son actually is g*y and has a restraining order against him. But the weird thing is that he actually hangs out with people that ARE g*y...

it's getting really hard to handle and i'm stressing out so much. I need help. He's always lieing to me and about me it's tough. I've been thorugh so much! and the sad part is I don't think my mom is thinking straight.

Answer 1

You need to talk to your mom or some other adult that you know you can trust,so that you and your sisters can get you mom,to see what's really going on.Be completely honest about your feelings and try not to be intimidated,your family deserves better .Good luck and bless you and your family.

Answer 2

Protect yourself...........nothing he has done has shown he is worthy of trust, so don't trust him.

One possible solution is stop talking to him.  Whatever he says, make no comment, just leave.

If he physically touches you, call the police.

Are your sisters aware of the problem?  Do they still live in the same house?  Consult with them, see how they handled him.

Sorry

Luck

Answer 3

sorry to hear that, my advice is dont provoke him. the only real thing that helps myself is my relationship with Jesus Christ. at one time, i was the drunkard, the beligerant one saying horrible things. until one night, as i woke up in jail, God spoke to my heart, and let me know that it is basically now or never. at that point i had lost everything, job, house, car, and family. but since then, and I accepted God's gracious offer for mercy, things have turned 180 degrees. i repented and believed the gospel, and now i preach to others. dont underestimate the power of conversion. Abe lincoln said, there are two ways to kill an enemy, one is to destroy him, and the other is to make them your freind. i hope this helps.

Answer 4

first off you need to talk to your mom about it, heart to heart talk.  Then if that doesn't work i would talk to a counselor at school about it.  Sounds like hes a jerk and your mom needs to open her eyes.