I need help with relationship?

Question

Im a muslim girl and like this nonmuslim boy.His well behave and i like him to be my friend.Is it okay if i can control myself?as in not to touch him at all.Is it okay if i have him as a boy-friend and hangout?

Answer 1

Well its okay by me, but that dosent help or change anything. I think this might be a question that only you can answer. By that i mean that by asking you can find out what other people think but you still have to decide if that actually matters. I think you should go for it, one more friend is always a good thing.

Answer 2

you know your bible and customs.

you know that it is forbidden.

When the hormones start racing cause your attracted to the the guy you cannot trust yourself to stop.

What would your parents do to you?

Answer 3

Hi

I think it is ok I am Muslim too

as long as you dont do anything that is bad .

and if he is up to it the sure why not

i hope i helped

Answer 4

If you are young I would suggest you avoid it because if your parents find out they will have a heart attack and everything will be all bad from there.  They will probably send you back to your home country to get married if they get suspicious.  Too much trouble.

Now if you are older or when you get older, do what your heart feels is right.  It's hard because you don't want to shame your parents, but in actuality, shame on them for being so selfish about your feelings.  It's your life, but when it comes to things like this they would rather make themselves happy and if you are unhappy, so be it.  What will the people back home say right.  s***w those people back home.  Not to be rude to your parents, but s***w them to if it starts to really bother you.  In the end you gotta live with yourself, and if you are a good person and live your life the right way,  why would God punish you for not doing what your parents say.  Don't let religion scare you into thinking that something bad is going to happen to you if you don't listen to your parents.  Don't get me wrong though, you should look to your parents for guidance, but don't let them control such things that are so important to you.  If you are a good person and you do decide to go against some of your parents wishes, they are the ones that will have to accept you for who you are.  Don't make youself unhappy, to make them happy. Thats all mixed up.

Answer 5

no.. its always ok in the beginning but relationships progress and eventually you will have to choose.  Save yourself the pain and heartache, he's not right for you.  He's not muslim.  As a friend is ok, but if you fancy him you won;t be able to keep him as a friend.

Answer 6

OF COURSE IT IS!!!!

Answer 7

I think you should ask him whether he agree anot. anyways, love is blind. Even you are in different races, you all still can be together. It just the matter of what both of you think

Answer 8

i dunno, u gonna have to touch him eventually, or at least touch his p***s or he wont like u anymore